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Hey really great advice guys. She is a weird girl in that she seems to develop these one-itis' for guys who see her as a friend if that. For example this guy she is obsessed over at the moment, they have been on a couple of dates, exchanged e-mails for a while, and had phone conversations but...

I know this chick, friend of a friend, who has had one-itis for this guy for ages. She can only see him during holidays from uni, as he lives in her home town, and he seems to be stringing her along. Anyway, this has been going on for months from the sound of it, but recently she asked him...

I am a bit confused. I am currently trying to bulk and doing a 20 rep squat routine and working my ass off in the gym. But am a bit confused about the diet One school of thought is that it is mainly about calories and you should have lots of milk, shakes, pasta, meat etc. So getting a good...

Yes that sounds like a plan. I am going to subtely let her know that I am going out and hitting on girls and she will start to wonder why I haven't hit on her. I did it this evening...she was asking me how my shopping at tesco went and i told her there was a pretty new check out girl called...

There is this girl I quite like who and we have these very flirty conversations. The problem is my friend who is my flatmate fancies her and got turned down by her, and my female friend who is also my flatmate is her best friend and would get upset if I asked her out as I have a bit of a bad...

Recently I got messed around severely by a girl I really liked, and have decided that I am not getting respect from girls and am being too much of a nice guy. I was brought up by my mother with impeccable manners, to compliment girls, make them laugh and make them feel special. I am a bit...

Unfortunately I have been cursed with a rather gloomy nature-I think it is the Scot in me! I am a rather serious, introverted, and melancholy. I think positive and talk positively and put on a brave face and make lots of jokes, but am never going to pass off as Mr Happy or Mr Outgoing. I am...

This year I developed one-itis over a girl and having had some success with girls over the last year and getting the hang of DJing, I was arrogant enough to believe that in time I could win her over with my charm and wit. I ignored the low interest signs (reluctant to hold eye contact, never...

cool, though isn't it a bit afc to go to the girl i am going to the prom with and say, by the way i am a hopeless dancer so can you show me a few moves on the dancefloor

Hi I am going to a prom with a girl who is a good dancer and i want to look like I have a clue what i am doing. I have read the dancing threads and am ok at solo disco dancing and the sort of grinding sexual dancing. But for the prom and especially with this girl i want to go for something a...

I was talking to a female friend the other day and they were talking about safety and how girls prefer to do group dates or go to parties with men where there will be lotsof other people and have safety rooutes, as they are scared about spending time alone with men they do not know, or going...

The best thing to be known is not as a player but someone who girls throw themselves at. Someone who is so charming that they attract girls like flowers attract bees. You don't want to be seen as someone sleazy who keeps hitting on girls.

I am pleasant looking say a 6 or a 7. Never going to turn heads or pull girls based on my looks alone but I think most girls are within my league. It does mean though I have to rely a lot more on personality, charm and confidence and chemistry. I am happy with my lot. If I was model good...

Hi Bonhomme I agree with the comment about Anti-Dump. But going for immediate high interest is going to stop you gettting with lots of girls you want. And a lot of initial high interest is solely physical. However once she gets to know you her interest level may rise if you are a charming DJ and...

Hi Frank. This is a common situation. When her interest level is not that high she will give you lots of excuses, many of which will be genuine, but when she becomes more interested you will fine even if she is busy she will make the time for you. However if she is making no mention of seeing...

There seems to be a consesus amongst some people on this site that every time a woman plays games, acts flaky or disrespects you, you should call her up on it, next her or similarly punish her. I have done this in the past and it works horrendeously badly. Here is why I think it does: 1...

Well I invited her on a date for Valentines. She said she had a charity event thing she promised to do with a friend but we could all meet together if we wanted. I turned up and she seemed pleased to see me. She was with friends so i spent most of my time talking to my friends and charming her...

I have been told by girls in the past that i am not a good kisser and tend to be a bit slobbery. Well I am making a move on a girl on monday if all goes to plan and want to give her a very good first kiss. Any tips? I am compleltey clueless as haven't kissed many girls while sober.

Thanks guys. Next time I get her on a date I am going to put on all my charm and at the end of the date go for the kiss. I haven't made a move on her yet, and even if it doesn't come off at least i will have closure as she will be forced to reject me rather than keeping me at arms length. The...

I have been confused recently as a lot of girls have told me that they think i am very attractive and charming but don't feel there is any chemistry between us. This is a persistent problem. I am good looking, tall, athletic intelligent, charming and witty but cannot seem to create chemistry...