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    Girl thinks we went "too far" on our first date

    Pretty astute Vulpine. Yeah her ex boyfriend is in the picture. She insists she is happily single and she left him but says it is unfinished business in the sense that they still have a business relationship but she has not seen him in over three months. She was pretty upfront about this early...
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    Girl thinks we went "too far" on our first date

    Well I basically stopped texting her, saying I was busy when she asked why I was so distant lately etc. In the end she phoned me up and apologised saying she was sorry for making me wait but she was freaking out because she was scared of getting involved and she always did this and hated it. She...
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    Girl thinks we went "too far" on our first date

    Well i gave it a few days said i was sorry for not respecting her boundaries and appreciated her letting me stay over. She seemed quite receptive and we chatted for a bit but once i suggested just hanging out she ignored the question and said she had to go to bed. Then she texts me the next...
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    Girl thinks we went "too far" on our first date

    I had a first date with this girl recently. She is smart, sexy and sassy and impressed me a lot. We were having a great time and it got late and as I missed the last train and it was a two hour bus ride back to mine I invited myself back to hers. She expressed reservations saying she never had...
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    Prostatitis

    Anyone on here dealt with this before? I've been on antibiotics for months now and nothing is really helping and I'm getting a bit depressed. When it flares up sex is off the menu and I'm irritable and tired and certainly not in any fit state to charm the ladies.
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    Getting Divorced- Boy was that a Disaster!

    Poor guy. Lessons to learn: Love is blind Wait till the infatuation wears off before you think of any sort of commitment with a girl, most of them can only keep up the wonderful girl up for a few months If a woman pressures you to commit, don't If you find out a girl has a father that...
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    Now, this crap really sucks

    That is pretty crappy what she did to you. I know your motives were entirely pure and altruistic. But there is always going to be danger when you get involved with damaged women even if you treat them like friends. With this type of girl a man who is nice but masculine and strong can be...
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    Apathy towards girls

    jafyk yeah i have had quite a few dates lately where the conversation was stilted and both of us were clearly bored. Quite probably the girl went home thinking I was boring. Really though good conversation is about give and take and most girls have little to offer to a conversation...
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    Apathy towards girls

    Guys im honoured by the response this thread is getting. What I find is that girls' assets are frontloaded. You see a girl from across the room with her seductive smile, the dress clinging to her body, and she seems like an attractive proposition. Girls spend their whole lives perfecting...
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    Apathy towards girls

    Glad my post resonated with a few of you. sodbuster stop it with the pizza analogy im hungry now :P but yeah it is a great analogy: id devoted time in my life to getting good with girls and now im bored of girls. It is kinda ironic. I also find that im lazy and instead of liking...
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    Apathy towards girls

    When I was younger I found girls fascinating and let their beauty cast a spell over me and found everything they said and every gesture charming. When I was with a girl time seemed to pass by at the speed of light and afterwards I was positively glowing. Sure you could say it was infatuation...
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    Weak plates

    Some response is not a reliable indicator of interest. I've known dozens of girls who will reply to texts and talk on the phone but the moment you so much as mention meeting up they will start making excuses. I think the only way to deal with a weak plate is to drop the ball. See if she...
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    Girls stalling on a second date

    Oh they all have my number Jitterbug usually there is a suggestion but no firm counteroffer. Having said that it is perhaps unreasonable to expect a girl to be able to suggest an alternative date weeks in the future. If i was busy id probably say to a girl "im busy but when im free ill...
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    Girls stalling on a second date

    Something that has been happening occasionally is the following. I go on a date with a girl. Wait three or four days, call her and ask her on a second date and they have an almost watertight excuse. examples: "Exams" "Family visiting...(girl is foreign) "Holiday" "Illness" Im never...
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    Back in the game at 31 and don't know what to do

    Hey Jariel Try internet dating. The quality is better than it used to be and you can line up three dates a week. That will give you all the conversation, flirting practice you need and once you get that out of the way you will be sharp and ready for hitting the bars again.
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    Vulnerable women

    Sharpgame I think you are spot on. Why would I want to be with a weak woman who seemingly cannot take care of herself? If she leaves me I'd consider it a lucky escape but I'm out of the door the moment I see the full extent of her vulnerability and neediness. The only twinge of guilt is a...
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    Vulnerable women

    Alexander the Great...I feel sympathy for these girls but pity is not a basis for romantic feelings or sexual attraction. I wouldn't recommend also sharing insecurities with these women. It will turn them off because im sure part of your appeal for them is seeming like someone who can roll...
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    Vulnerable women

    I like to think I am a nice guy and the last thing I want to do is prey on vulnerable women. But for some reason vulnerable women seem inextricably drawn to me even though I show no romantic interest at all in them. The weird thing is they start off all flirty and I think "she's cool" but...
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    All going well but girl doesn't reply to text

    Don't listen to the exam stuff. You should have invited her on a second date and if she wanted to spend her evenings studying she'd tell you and then if she counteroffers or says she wants to see you after your exams then you know she is interested.
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    Introversion and Spinning Plates

    Introverts definitely meet a lesser volume of girls. As in many cases dating is a number's game this puts them at a disadvantage if they want to spin a lot of plates. However I think they often connect with girls better so can form relationships more easily than extroverts whose skill set seems...
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