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    Girlfriend gets assaulted at a party by her ex

    It is true all right. Now she suddenly does not care about our relationship and just wants her virginity back and thinks it is my duty to give it to her and my fault she lost it and wants to take me to court. Obviously she is full of crap but who knows what the laws are like in her country...
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    Girlfriend gets assaulted at a party by her ex

    Haha. Well she never said anything about her virginity until two weeks after we had sex on the first date. I can never really tell. I have heard that in her country the tendency is to do everything short of full sex. So it is possible. But trust me there was NOTHING innocent about this girl when...
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    Girlfriend gets assaulted at a party by her ex

    Well we had a conversation. She admitted it was her fault. I dumped her. Then she started saying rubbish like she was a virgin when we met and she wants her virginity back and how will she get a husband because in her country they all want virgins. Then she said that she will tell the police...
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    Girlfriend gets assaulted at a party by her ex

    Bible Belt we had another talk and she admitted to me she knew it would probably happen if she went to the party but was curious to see him because she'd been away in england all year and she hadn't been to any parties and was bored sitting at home all day. She went back and called me at...
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    Girlfriend gets assaulted at a party by her ex

    Yeah the whole thing is a bit dodgy. In her country alcohol is illegal so it was a private party in someone's house. For me the most pertinent questions are: 1. If she knew her ex boyfriend was like this why did she go to a party and let him get her alone? 2. If it was entirely her...
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    Girlfriend gets assaulted at a party by her ex

    I was on a business trip this week and my girlfriend asked if she could go to a house party. I said "Sure" and didn't think anything about it. Around midnight she calls me in tears and said she loves me and I am an angel. I say "What is the matter?" She said "I hate parties". I said "What...
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    The universal double standard

    My post was partly generalizing, partly personal. Certainly I do not expect a virgin like men in a lot of cultures want for relationships or marriage. But as jophil put it if you are more of a relationship kind of a guy at what point does a girl's sexual past become disturbing and an indicator...
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    The universal double standard

    Something you see in many cultures is this double standard where men try to sleep with as many women as possible and have no qualms of cheating on their girlfriends/wives. But want to marry a girl who is as sexually inexperienced as possible (virgins in many traditional cultures) and are...
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    Modern marriage doesn't work...what is the alternative?

    Some interesting thoughts I had not considered. When I think about marriage I think about mediterranean or latin cultures where family is the centre of the community and no-one really feels lonely because always the family is there and even when you are old your children will look after you...
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    Modern marriage doesn't work...what is the alternative?

    I've read the nomarriage.com thread and I agree with the sentiments. Modern marriage in a western society has little to recommend it. With a one in two divorce rate men face the prospect of alienation from their children and financial ruin. Even the marriages that do "work" usually involve some...
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    The Lone Wolf Lifestyle

    Ever since being a kid I always used to prefer my own company: reading, playing piano, writing stories etc. At school and college it was pretty much impossible to avoid some degree of social contact so I had plenty of acquaintances and that made up for not having any close friends. Since...
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    First date as a priming date

    squirrels I take your point about becoming more comfortable with my sexuality. Im still trying to strike the right balance. When I was younger I used to take a girl to a bar first date talk for hours by which time the conversation would get boring and we'd run out of things to say to each...
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    First date as a priming date

    I've had a bad run of first dates lately. So I was thinking of an alternative approach using a first date as a priming date: just coffee and conversation for up to an hour. I like the idea in theory. In general I pick up girls during the day in cafes, galleries, etc. or meet them online-so...
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    Vasectomy - Wise decision ?

    I've also been thinking about this. And im a similar age to you. Quite a few of my friends have accidentally knocked girls up. I do not want to be lumbered with child support for a kid I had with a woman i just viewed as a sex object and had nothing in common with. Even best case scenario...
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    do men lose interest in sex as they grow older?

    If you are losing interest in sex as you age the causes are more likely to be any number of the following: Stress (a huge libido killer) Weight gain (fat men have lower testosterone levels) Lack of exercise (good for fighting stress, keeping your weight down and getting the blood flowing)...
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    Is the curse of a Don Juan being alone?

    Thanks Da Realist I think you are getting where Im coming from. Although how I read it Rollo wasn't accusing me of being an AFC or anything just arguing with my theory that beautiful women are looking for a man who "works hard to make them happy". Perhaps I should rephrase my post. I find...
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    Is the curse of a Don Juan being alone?

    I hit up a girl I met a while ago. Turns out she had a boyfriend. I saw pictures of the boyfriend and he is really homely. She is a sexy, model good looking girl. I asked her what she saw in him. She replied "he works hard to keep me happy". My immediate reaction to think to myself: that...
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    anyone pickup callgirls?

    Harry, high class escorts are probably out of the range of most guys on here. But I agree if you pay top dollar you are going to reduce the disease risk. The majority of men I know who have used hookers, it tends to be the red light district girls in seedy flats with a constant flow of men going...
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    anyone pickup callgirls?

    Couple of points: 1) There are lots of STDs that you can contract even while using protection. Arguing that hookers are cleaner doesn't fly because there are always going to be guys paying them extra to go bareback and if they are seeing hundreds of guys a week they are going to pick...
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    Anyone ever considered a vasectomy?

    I've been playing a field a fair bit and had my fair share of pregnancy scares and I do not want the hassle. I also like really cheap women and I dread to think about the kind of kids Id produce with them, worst case scenario. I have no desire for kids. I like to spend my money on myself and...
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