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The thing is, I don't see her as a girl who would initiate something like that. She has too much pride, I think. And considering that I had the last word when I told her I'd go NC to move on, isn't the ball in my court now?

I was the dumpee and she said she wanted to remain friends with me. I said that would take time and I'd rather we not talk for some time. So I NC'd her but I could tell she was sad about this judging by her updates on social medias. Then I reinitiated contact, thinking maybe there's a chance...

Indifferent might not be the right word. The real situation is, my ex rarely contacts me first but everytime I contact her, we always have nice, fun conversations and she's pretty enthusiastic, ie. creating new topics when the convo's dying. But it's almost always me who initiates contact...

maybe you can give me an example? because I'm in a situation where it's possibly a good idea to let her know my intention. see my thread on the first page of this subforum.

haha. no, man. I'm asian. well if that's the case then it makes sense. but I thought the OP meant something like saying you like her or something.

care to elaborate the fifth rule? I thought it's not very DJ to express your feelings to a girl.

Just a short question. How to get an ex back when she already thinks I've moved on and not interested in her anymore so she acts indifferent where deep inside she still wants me? Thanks.

I don't know what you mean by making moves but what I mean by "escalate things" isn't physical. I mean hinting at the future/exclusivity.

Hi, just want to share a story and seeking for people with similar experience. So, I was seeing this girl for about 4 months. Since the beginning, she planned to tell her best friend about this but just hadn't had the courage so she was kinda stalling, waiting for the right moment, and just...

too long for people to bother to reply I guess

well, she could be honest about the school thing or it's just a case of low interest. either way, if you're looking for a gf, you should look somewhere else.

Hi guys, This never happened to me, but what if one day my gf asks a question like that? Honestly, I want the best person I can possibly get, but if I answer honestly, I don't think it's wise. Thanks.

Hi, Just an observation I made. We know that one of the DJ "rules" is to do some kind of push/pull behavior. Give a woman attention one day, then act indifferent the next day (this is just a generalization, real situations may vary). But when chicks do this thing to us, we accuse them of...

I forgot to mention that she's not just a girl I barely know. I've known her for 4 years, even though we weren't really good friends. But earlier this year we started seeing each other more often by chance and our interests developed. But yeah, still doesn't justify my wanting to marry her I...

don't know man, seeing my age and all, I think it'd be nice to settle down.

Hi guys, I've been seeing this girl for about two months. We're not official yet but we already treat each other like bf/gf. Now here's the thing that's been bothering me. These past few days I feel that she acts differently. I initiate contact more than she does, she often replies my texts...

using your logic then she's not into her past bf's as well because she acted the same with them.

Hi guys, I've read so many times here that you guys recommend freezing gf out (a.k.a. giving cold shoulders) if she does something disrespectful. Now, from my experience, some girls tend to see it as sulking and that it's a childish behavior. I partly agree with them, especially if they don't...

so should I just say, "no, I won't tolerate bratty behavior. but why are you in a bad mood, though?" ?

Hi, What to response/do when your gf says something like this: "I'm in a bad mood right now so I might act bratty. May I?" Is this some kind of sh*t test or what? Thanks.