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Exactly my "problem." I tend to fall for those innocent faced girls, but I just can't imagine myself bedding them.

Hi, guys. Just a short question here. Which situation is easier for you to get over a breakup: when they still has some feelings left but for some reason you can't be together, or when they've lost all of their feelings for you and leave you coldly?

Just when I thought I got better, I suddenly miss her. It's like a circle.

let him. experience is the best teacher

why can't she leave the sister alone? her sister isn't 5 year old is she? and a date would only take a few hours, right? I don't get this.

that theory doesn't work for me too. there would be some moments when they do something that makes me compare them to my ex, and the memories of my ex come back, and then I feel sad.

sorry to hijack, but if your girl call or text you and ask you to meet and have "a talk" and you're sure it's gonna be a breakup talk, what should you do? should you say, "don't bother. i know how it'll end. well, take care" right at that moment or should you meet her anyway? to the OP, it's...

sorry but that's bullsh1t

what if a girl confides to her ex about you or her love life? doesn't that mean the ex is already deep in the friend zone?

Just thinking I'd do a little update here. So, we continued seeing each other for about 2 months since this thread started. In the end she dumped me because she said this "relationship" was too risky considering her best friend and all and she better stop it before it gets too serious. 2 months...

hmmm doesn't that sound over the top? that screams jealousy IMO.

you mean meagan? yeah, 6 at best. you're not trying to promote the website, are you?

haha, he's actually in another country, dude. he hasn't returned since his departure 6 years ago. she's the one who broke up with him because she said she hates distance. but anyway that's beside the point.

After reading a Doc Love article that basically says you shouldn't get serious with a girl who's still in contact with her ex, I remember that I dated this girl who's close friends with her ex. They broke up 5 years ago because of distance and now they still communicate often, even Skype-ing...

what a story. but it's the bf who dumped her. where in my case, it's the girl who ended it.

is it possible that she's using her ex as a rebound? because she missed me even a month after our breakup. also, when a girl uses someone as a distraction from her bf/ex, do they do that consciously? like, "hmmm I think this guy would be perfect for a distraction. maybe later I'll get back with...

what? are you serious, man? whether it's 4 weeks or a day, official is official. there's no way you can stop hanging out and assume the relationship is over.

yes, probably. in the loose sense of the word. friends don't flirt do they? but I realize this can't continue if I still want her back.

I'm still learning myself but one saying that I always remember is, it's only awkward when you think it is. Maybe you could try what Uma Thurman said in Pulp Fiction. "Don't you hate that? Uncomfortable silences. Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about bull**** in order to be comfortable?" Haha.

Yeah, I'll try not contacting her for a while and see if she reciprocates. Nah, it's not like I'm trying to be her friend or anything. I'm only doing this just because I sense she might be interested in getting back together.