Search results

Actually I've removed her facebook since last month and I saw the photos from a mutual friend's album. But anyway, I just typed her usernames (facebook, twitter and whatnot) on my router's blocked keywords. I hope something good will come out of it :yes:

is it pathetic though, to still feel this way 3,5 months after the breakup? considering we weren't even exclusive and the "relationship" only lasted 3 months. but I admit I fell hard for her, I got too attached. I didn't protect my heart.

yeah, I've been meaning to never see her profiles again but usually every few weeks, there comes a moment when I really miss her and there's some uncontrollable force that moves my hand to click her profiles.

well, that burning feeling is actually jealousy. when I look at her photos what I feel is melancholia.

Hi guys, So this girl I was seeing for 3 months decided to stop seeing me and a month or two later got back together with her ex. I was pretty bummed by the news but I've managed to live with that fact, until a few days ago when I missed her so much (one of those days) and I stupidly browsed...

cut what? what needs to stop?

you mean you want to be her bf again? say, "don't contact me unless you wanna talk something about our relationship."

it doesn't matter whether you state NC explicitly or pretend to be okay with being friends. why should it matter? the important thing is to go NC for your happiness. I prefer stating it though so she won't contact you again as it will make it harder for you to forget her.

IMO there's not a problem in what you said. And yeah, I think telling her that could turn the table a bit.

actually I've been doing the fade away thing with the ex and I'm sure she gets it but she seems to always found a reason to contact me. and helplessly, I sometimes respond and we would have a long chat and this would set me back. so I'm thinking of saying it explicitly.

yeah, dating someone who's still hung up on her ex is a lose-lose situation.

that doesn't answer my question, only adds fuel to it. since NC with her ex give my gf time to miss him, isn't forbidding her to contact the ex suicidal?

yankee hotel foxtrot, probably my favorite album ever :up:

no no, that's not what I meant. sorry english is not my first language. please see fairshake's reply. @fairshake: the point is, wouldn't forbidding our gf to keep contact with her ex only make her want him more? (let's say she still has some feelings). basic psychology here, human want what...

ahahah, that's a gem.

Hi guys, If we go NC by telling them clearly to not contact us, wouldn't it make us look weak and give them the upper hand? It's like they'd say "Ha! Apparently I still occupy your life so much that even a slight communication will break you down."

Yeah, I probably won't apologize after all as it might seem tacky, but maybe I'll ask her if she has some unresolved questions about the abrupt breakup, just to get it off my chest.

Hi guys, It's been 8 months since I broke up with my ex. I broke up with her when we were getting serious, talking about marriage etc, and her love for me was high. But I guess it was a case of fizzled out feelings and I thought it was best to end it. It surely hurt her a lot and I overheard...

I live in Indonesia and strangers see you as weird or act awkwardly too if you smile at them without any reason. Maybe it's a south east asian thing?

Sorry the question in the title is different from the question in the post. So I don't know to which question you guys answered. for me it's harder when they still have feelings. because it keeps giving me hope, and that slows down my recovery. but when they left us coldly, it hurts at first...