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i think it's more (and less) than that. there are a lot of 'sensitive mature pro-feminist' males who are so whupped they can't see out of their own rectums.... i think it's much less IDEALISTIC than the way you're putting it. and the proper recognition that we should strive for is that women...

koal king, AHA!!! GOOD POINT! i totally neglected the butterfly syndrome and you're right, there are indeed hot chicks that come from a place where they still feel ugly for some reason. some, as you say, are the girls who were ugly growing up that blossomed into hot chicks and others are...

howdy, so i'm probably gonna take a week off of work later in the summer and i figure that the best way to spend it is to actually get laid or at least exercise my madskillz... :) basically i'm a recovering afc and have read a lot to reform, and acquire strategies and skills, worked out so...

CASTING.... the discrepancy between who WROTE THE STORY and WHO PLAYS THE PROTAGONIST. also discrepancy between a character as he's being portrayed vs. the actor playing him! so many times, movies are written by artsy, sensitive and afc joes that we can all readily relate with. after...

all of life is a head game. there was an interesting scientific study recently about how most people consider themselves ABOVE AVERAGE in almost everything (looks, work performance, intelligence, etc). but just by the DEFINITION of AVERAGE, that can't possibly be true. what that study shows...

hey speakeasy, that's me too.... for me, i have a bunch of christian friends and i'm not! so i don't get the community that they have and i've got no social proof or back up to tear into the secular community... hahaha... i'm so screwed.... oh well... i ain't dead yet and sarging parties are...

I didn't ever like salesman & disliked pua life because of that - because it's all so much manipulative bs (and it is). But the thing is, we all want to be sold. We all want to be manipulated. we all want the bs (the fantasy)... nobody is interested in the boring, prosaic, and frequently...

Getting out there! it seems to me that the most essential advice, the key component in all this dj stuff is this: get out there & meet women. That seems to be the essential point and the dividing line between those who succeed with women & those who don't. in my mind, i have a theory...

most of the stuff written in the PUA community is derivative - and not only that, it is sometimes badly written, badly edited & over-priced. especially when it comes to the AV material.... that's not to say that they can't help you. i myself was tremendously helped by mike pilinsky's...

wow... on the contrary... i DO think that not having a car is a problem. we should be confident no matter where we're at at the moment... but we should never be delusional. the stuff about not caring what women think... errr... there's a VERY REAL SENSE IN WHICH WE CARE VERY MUCH (!!!)...

hmmm... if you ever date porn stars or strippers, you'd probably be facing a pretty long line of people to assault, and probably a lot in their very own family tree. would you go after them one at a time or schedule a get together for a no holds barred 'battle royale' where you take em on...

hmmmm.... that reminds me... i guess that's why everybody opts for FANTASY as opposed to reality. as scrum points out, most of us don't have taleworthy lives... hell, if you're not independently wealthy, that's almost guaranteed because it means that a good chunk of your time is simply...

yeah, from the stuff that comes out in some of these forums, you'd figure that to be a real "man", you do have to be astoundingly interesting every minute of the day. and any less and they throw a "that's why they call it afc... AVERAGE" at you. yeah, i'm boring as hell too... and to be...

hey gunwitch, i generally like what you have to say. but i think locking eyes with men and not looking away until they do is just dumb. if you had a bunch of guys at a party who thought like you (or even took your advice for that matter), you'd have a room full of guys who for the whole...

i definitely can empathize. i understand also that YOU WILL NOT SEVER YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP. i understand that. and i hope we can find advice with that as a given. ------------------------------------------------------ 1 - don't tell her. you might think that it will make you...

nice in and of itself is not bad... it's just that as guys, we tend to throw a lot of behavior under the word NICE. so think: are you NICE or are you (consciously or not) OBSEQUIOUS? things associated with 'true' NICENESS: 1. STRENGTH, PLENTY, CONFIDENCE 2. TRUE GENEROUSITY AND...

howdy, well, i've been doing a LOT of reading lately and it seems that there's a great deal of cross-polination among these DATE DOCTOR/GURU types.... and yet, very few cite sources. i am quite certain that they didn't come up with much of this stuff from whole cloth. so what are...

biggest argument AGAINST autism is that these guys (me included) have successful social relationships if they are non-sexual in nature. although perhaps there is a form of 'sexual autism'? they can't *** until they've counted all the spilled toothpicks? :) delta

pay attention. i'm offering pain. therefore, i have nothing to sell... truth is free... alas... if it exists at all. delta

rgeere and dapper, i think you guys are WAAAAAAaaaaay off in characterizing hopeless howards' as being lazy. their despair may and probably does lie in a complete lack of knowledge on the subject. i was (probably still am) there. for the more analytical and (dare i say) intelligent...