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Re: I haven't found any great NLP sites. There are sites in countries that will lead you to groups or certifications, if that's your forte. I've read a fair amount of books by Bandler and Grinder, Tony Robbins, and L Michael Hall. As well as E-Books online. I'd have to drudge up a list to...

LMAO Dude, I did, too. I actually subscribed under the same SN over there at www.datingadviceforum.com and was evoked IMMEDIATELY for merely referencing SoSuave.com and NLP. Furthermore, without even having intelligent discussion I was banded. Guess they don't approve of people who shake...

Re: Know what would happen if he took action? 1. He yells back, and makes a bigger scene. His display of anger might be enough to get her to back down and resume her slot. However, if she's been this way for awhile, then it's unlikely she'd take his backtalk. In public, if he...

Re: Logic will lead you to understand *why* that is. Why do sex addicts crave sex? (Aside from the obvious, 'sex') Endorphins. Chemical Addiction. The hook. When you're loaded with THAT much in chemical, and highly volatile hormones, you're a nuke ready to blow ALL THE FICKING TIME...

Re: Not sure what your thesis statement was, brother, but that quote out of Maxim was the largest load of B.S. I've read to date. In no uncertain terms, there hasn't been a girl I've dated for longer than a month that I HAVEN'T slept with. As it progressed, I came to find out, she wouldn't...

Re: Any girl you desire, wouldn't approach you. That dime down the end of the bar, in the mall, walking through the parking lot, or at the club ""doesn't need to approach you,""" unless you have a famous last name, like Trump, Affleck, Pitt, etc You can only have the life you desire, the...

Been there. No matter the guy, it don't matter who it is...the more you approach, the more you will encounter this situation. I had friends who no girl would touch become competition when we partying and try to pick up a girl. I had friends who could be competition, become competition out of...

Sounds simple enough to me. Why sugar coat it? Beating around the bush always leads to more pain. The other party may *assume* there's something left in the future and cling to false hope. Being direct is much more respectful, leads to less pain in the long wrong, gets what you desire...

Re: Unless you truly enlightened parents, or they are well-educated, doctors, accountants, lawyers, advisors, politicians, professors, business owners, etc, most parent's will be afraid, unsure, self-conscious, etc. Why? Because typically our lives are the product of whom is involved...

Ignorance. Ignorance also plays a factor in my opinion. Unless a girl grew up working out as a result of sports, i.e. soccer, softball, field hockey, it's unlikely she was active. Perhaps she did light running and stretching. However, we all know here that the body requires strenuous workouts...

Couldn't be more right. You're on the money, PS. Dimes, whatever *your* dime is, has seen it all. When they've seen it all, you got no leverage and you can't talk their game. IME, it took some time with the 10's and fvcking up to *get it.* 1. his pleasure comes first 2. he will...

She ain't ya wife. Maybe I'm more laid back than I should be but... You can't control a person. Wives cheat, and even they took a vow to the end. With that in mind, I don't care. A person will do what they will do. Personally, I know I'd be pissed and crushed. Which one would rule out, I...

On the $. Exactly. Moreover, how often do you go to a joint where you run into the same people? Rarely? If ever? The odds of running into the same people all the time only go up when your hang out joints turn into a scene from "Cheers" (which I've been to in Boston). If that's the...

Who's been on vacation, anywhere, be it 30 minutes away from, to as many as 20 hours away? Show of hands?! Do you remember the rush of NOT knowing what to expect, but being fully excited for whatever came of it? Do you remember NOT expecting anything to come of it, yet meeting someone...

Nice post. Great post, bro. And great intro. You're on the money with pickiness and girls. Too often even I idolize girls into what I want, or even project my own assumptions of her. Then, I flip flop it so I get a feel for what the other possibility might be. Even then, the girls will...

Part II Part !! Nice guys lose, not because they aren't good people, but because to her, it's not a big goal, it's not WORTH her time. Tell me, tagging a 10 versus tagging a 5 takes about the same time right? Right. Well, what's the difference then in learning to tag 10's versus or...

Adapted from a variety fo sources on the 'mind', particularly NLP, Hypnosis, Psychoybernetics, and Motivational, I have drawan some conclusions on why challenge works, and so for those who haven't yet understood the 'why' and 'how' of it, I am opening a post to solidify that. It came upon me...

Friend. This is why friends are considered someone we know at least 3 years. Disagree? I didn't state it, psychologists have. Consider your own life situations. Who have you known 3 years? What about people less than 3 years? We're differentiating acquaintances vs friends. A friend...

I remember when I began dating, having a GF was the coolest thing. You were the man if you scored a girl, especially a hot, popular one. It gave societal validation at a time when you were quite unsure. As you get older though, or at least age, more and more of life has it's way of getting in...

Eloquent posts as well. Rollo Tomassi Fantastic post. Glad someone could 'label' it. Entitlement is a great wording as well, because, that's just what it is. I understand that in 'the old days' women did the child rearing and men did the resource gathering, I've read all the books. Yet...