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Re: It's hard to see this, with the mind you currently have and the eyes you're viewing it all through, but please bear with me. Having to ask how to play it means you should go to work IMMEDIATELY on improving yourself. Don't set to "HOW SHOULD I DO IT," the answer will come in time. Once...

Re: With the prevalence of disease, paternity suits, AIDS, psychotics, and so forth, "FREE LOVE" and "Hooking UP", In My Arrogant Opinion, isn't what it once was. For our parents, sure it was a dandy time, but with MOST people harboring some mild-STD, and a good % harboring serious STD's, is...

Re: Listen to me when I say this: All girls, and I mean ALL girls, respond to the "ignorance" type of treatment. This however, does NOT mean, she wants anything physical or emotional, it merely means that she's "checking in." Case-in-point: A girl I'd taken to Hawaii and flown to...

Worth Every Bit of 5 Stars. Good job, Eric, on communicating your feelings and your situation. Information like this is invaluable. It's worthy of 5 stars simply by virtue of the fact that there isn't a need for people to view it any other way. For you newbies fumbling around for "the...

For those of us unaffiliated to any country other than America or any particular, the phrase "rite of passage" typically means nothing. As a male that's "Americanized," we hit 18, and about the only thing you get is the ability to smoke and buy porn. At 21, you can drink, go to strip clubs, and...

Re: Cases you've sighted make some sense, generally speaking. However, ALL males over age 40 that I'm friends with or related to, looks good enough to tag ANY 20 year old girl, money or not. The next question one must ask, is what does a woman in this modern age of equality bring to the...

Re: Anytime you do something for reasons other than your own, that "other" reason owns you, and will dictate your success or failure. Socrates once said that it's a shame that we men are born with bodies housing the potential to be our own adonis', yet most go completely unused. By the...

Testosterone. Alot of factors influence testosterone, as we're coming to find out. Diet, first of all. Too much vegetation, which has a natural inclination towards estrogen can lower T-levels. In addition, IMPURE foods, foods that are not free grown, but stockpiled in mass production areas...

Research. Since the age of time, women have sought older men. It's only been in traditional "American" societies where "Political Correctness" and "Morality" is foisted upon us men that being with someone of our own age has been stressed so much. See the harems of women still in operation...

Information Overload. The more you buy, the more information is thrown at you to show you how off mark you are. The more we've intellectualized life, the harder it seems to have become. Those who act and then feel for a moment's notice at least have the balls to enjoy it for what it is, life...

Disagree. THERE'S NO BRO'S or HOE'S. On the battlefield of mating, no one has first dibs. While I don't go for the leavens of a good friend, I don't sacrifice my own happiness for that of my friends. I have been, and you can be, screwed over just as bad with friends as you can with girls...

Clarification. My epiphany wasn't related to girls giving the number for bs reasons....but more to the point of... Yeah, it's great to get numbers, but that's easy. Probably 90% of girls will give out their number if you've spent any amount of time talking to them. And if you let time go...

Infatuation is just it. You're infatuated. Congratulations! Stop being outcome oriented. Play with her a bit and see if she's even worth spending time with. I had a deeper epiphany (perhaps for myself) last night, but ANY GIRL will give up her number just to say "NO" on the phone. Bottom...

Additional Pieces 1. Firstly, realize nobody's 100% confident all the time. A good portion of the people who "appear" confident are having the same doubts behind their piercing eyes. Having talked with all walks of life...you gain insight. 2. Alot of confidence stems from "resourcefulness."...

Re: Nice job, disciple. I've always been a believer that it stems from your outlook on life. Moments when I tried to be up, but was down, were just so fake I gave up. People say "Well I'm ok, but I want a tip to help me." I don't believe that stuff much. If you were "OK" you wouldn't...

Nice Post, but... Glad you made it to this realization, as hopefully other guys do as well. I dislike the utilization of movies for the facts that, actions are contrived. It's a utopia. It displays ideals, not as applicable to the real world. Not to destory viewpoints, but just get out there...

Comments Too much "thinking" to live life. Stop analyzing, start acting. Looks aren't a factor. Some guys have lots of friends, some don't. Psychologists dub a friend as "someone you have known intimately for at least 3 years." Topics like this remind me of the thought processes of...

Some input. Quiet confidence is not caring about confidence. It's not seeking it as a goal. Confidence is a means, a way of life, an end. It's being centered. Not needing anything. You spirit isn't thrown out of balance over money, women, image, or cars. It's keeping the EGO in check and...

Re: Nothing is ever "good" or "bad". That depends on the context. Perhaps she was respecting your privacy. Perhaps she was making up BS. Perhaps she was showing her independence. You see the various meanings that come of it? One can't 'know', one can 'assume'. I don't do assumptions with...

Re: "Saw you online, but didn't want to bother you. Thought you were working." "I assumed you were going out with your boys' tonight." "My phone died." As males, women make ALOT of generalizations about us, particularly if you're her type. If she feels she could like you, then she...