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nice can be a cover. it can be manipulation in disguise. you try to be so nice that no one is allowed to dislike you. in a sense, they come to "owe" you. and behind it all is not necessarily the interest of the well being of others but FEAR and self centeredness... and in the end, it is all...

taking a wild guess... you're religious right? delta

fromt the greek- phileo - love between friends... platonic love. agape - unconditional love of parent or god eros - sexual love eros is the only love that is completely SELFISH. we do not love in this sense for the sake of another. it is for us. we do not date for THEIR BENEFIT (and...

actually, more than talk, i'd like to find a lair so that you don't have to try to go on pick ups at clubs and such alone. just having a lair, group of guys, for support and to hang out with between approaches at a bar or club would be awesome. yeah, never mind so much technique... i want...

understand this: IF SHE WANTED YOU BACK, SHE WOULD HAVE COME BACK TO YOU! this is not all about what you do and whether you jumped through the right hoops. the fact that she is NOT with you speaks volumes. she knows you want her right? but she's not with you now. that means she wants out...

IF SHE'S HOT. sure, lots of ugs with lots of experience but man, if she's hot, make no mistake, there've been a lot of guys beatin down her door and her door ain't that strong.... delta

love is induced chemically in the brain. it could simply be the human brain attaching meaning and "poetry" to simple animal, reproductive drive, lust. dopamine plays a part. as does seratonin. as does oxytocin.... lust - pleasure - attachment - affection - love. it's all chemical. but that...

yep. NEVER WONDER! that is the waste of time that we all instinctually make. NEVER WONDER IF SHE LIKES YOU OR ANY SUCH CRAP LIKE THAT!!! why wonder? JUST ASK! and never think you're going to do some silly crap like "express your feelings for her"... BLEEEEUUUUGHH!!! JUST ASK HER OUT...

btw killacam, i love that: "don't let her become what fuels you." been thinking similar things recently. be cool. have a life that doesn't revolve around her or even constantly being on the prowl. have/develop my life. good advice. your quote is going into my journal.... delta

hey infamous, i'm in the same situation but worse. 3 months and i (STILL) work with her. i think your instinct about being played is correct. it might be that we were both being used as time sinks... while away the hours.... my chick just came off a year long relationship so very similar...

no... that would be a woman trying to imitate an alpha male.... alpha female means the top chick in the female hierarchy. hottest of the hot. delta

i don't agree.... just as there is a hierarchy among males, there is definitely a hierarchy among women... why do you think they are so catty in their competition to be top chick? most attractive? most wanted? alpha chick is HOT. alpha chick knows through every hour and every day of her...

seriously, for a woman - the only advice needed is "be hot". that's it. everything else is gravy. playing at a "high level" for women is be hot or go home. that's it. that's why for women, the game is either ridiculously easy or impossibly hard.... although i suppose diet and exercise will...

inner game is valid. but looks do indeed count. so do everything you can to put yourself in order. sometimes, we talk about looks here on the level of - you can have snot in your hair and stink of B.O., sweating profusely and have gunk in your eyes and as long as your inner game is good...

he's right to remain SKEPTICAL THOUGH. the mindset of WANTING TO BELIEVE makes for ripe pickings for people who want to sell you stuff. as i said in another thread, the PUA community is packed with people who promise you "MASSIVE SUCCESS" but such promises are usually not true. and when...

motivation, goals... interesting words. break it down. WHAT DO YOU WANT? if what you really want is to just lay about and not do anything, then your actions may indeed be contributing to fulfilling that goal. and hey, that might be completely VALID! maybe that's what you want out of life...

i think EVERYONE has this problem at some point or another. it's called CHOKING in sports right? ONCE YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO LOSE, you get conservative. it happens in gambling, in american life (hippies turning to conservative republicans!), etc etc. hey, didn't you ever watch TOP GUN...

well, it would make the personal feelings of POVERTY and DESPERATION go away for many men... and that was my original argument. delta

haha... as opposed to the rest of us yahoos that haven't left the house in the last decade? haha... delta

indeed.... in a forum that's all about being a man and bold, we seem to really tuck our tails and run when it comes to this particular subject. funny. delta