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    the battle of the alpha males

    whoever gets threatened LOSES. you are friendly and even look out for his best interest because you have nothing to lose. you have all that you need and nothing threatens you. the person who gets territorial and "goes on the offensive" is operating out of FEAR and fear is a symptom of...
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    Boring...

    good advice albion, generally, i was in the camp that if you're the wrong kind of person, if you have ultra confidence even though you are a seething dork, you're gonna be one heckuva an insufferable maniac with an inexplicable delusion of hotness..... BUT even though this comes across as...
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    Why do people think I'm gay?

    this sounds like a gag post. in case it's not: - some guys have an EFFEMINATE DEMEANOR... even if they are not gay. i've encountered people (including teachers) who i assumed were gay but it turns out that they just carry themselves, gesture, speak, or feature body language that is...
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    Getting her off

    she might have some kind of fear/anxiety/panic disorder regarding cumming... can be associated by some with a fear of just completely losing control... including embarassing things like peeing all over cuz of losing bladder control. it probably has a psychological component. if you think that...
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    All my girl-problems appear Indian....

    as racist as americans/western europeans can be, they are among the MOST RACIALLY TOLERANT PEOPLE IN THE WORLD! and this not really by a natural nobility of spirit but by simple virtue of the "melting pot" throwing everyone into the deep end of the pool. most... and i mean this... MOST other...
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    The Solution to the Damaging Effects of Seduction Websites

    problem with the pick up though and women is that it's not just an APPLICATION OF A SKILL. i can learn software or photography and be great at it. but being good with women is akin to PERFORMANCE. less being in a room by yourself and applying a skill... more like being on stage and connecting...
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    The Solution to the Damaging Effects of Seduction Websites

    agree that if you never go out and try, the knowledge won't help. but knowledge (especially for the ignorant) is very important. also, i'm a geek - and as a geek, i'm excellent at "book learning"... in my current career of computer graphics, when i first started, i had no computer at home! so...
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    Rich, decent looking, nervous, social retard (long)

    not drunk. and not violently anything. sorry... but there have been several guys in the pretty recent past that - for some reason or another - got their rocks off from claiming they were rich. i don't get it, i don't understand it, it's sad really. you're getting the resultant skepticism...
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    Rich, decent looking, nervous, social retard (long)

    why do so many guys claim to be rich? it immediately sends off alarm bells.... not to mention the fact of the discrepancy of: if you're rich, what the heck are you doing here?! i'm sure there's LOTS of great, professional help!!! if you're rich, get neil strauss or mystery to be your...
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    Why the F'k do I care when an ex hooks up!!

    depends on who dumped who. if she bailed, then the guy is barely even a memory. same for a guy right? if you got sick of her and left, then you wouldn't care. but if she GOT DUMPED when she had tremendous feeling for him, then it's probably the same for a girl as a guy. so yeah, if a...
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    Sick and tired of competing for girls

    you have to see the "economics" of the situation ala "a beautiful mind".... sure, you feel this way. there are girls tired of competing for his attention. not all the stragglers are lame right? you gotta learn to skim from the periphery. that one guy might be the life of the party...
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    Car problem when dating.

    exactly. lots of people have a need to front. so they take the plunge. good on them - it's part of djing to an extent. but if they have to obsess over it, they really can't afford it. it's basically my rule about how much you should spend on sunglasses. delta
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    Why the F'k do I care when an ex hooks up!!

    watch "closer".... an answer could be that "you're a fvcking cave man".... sense of ownership. that is yours. and you've had a strong emotional bond/attachment. one thing that intimacy does is it starts cementing the two of you together. common wisdom says that this is stronger in women...
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    Anybody got any arguments why I shouldn't go after a girl with a bf?

    best reason not to is KARMA. whatever you wreak upon another, it wears on you psychologically so that you have less resources to deal with it should it happen to you - in a sense, your subconscious can end up punishing you - judging that what you are getting is justice and deserved. sure...
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    Car problem when dating.

    actually, this is the reason why a fancy car has ALWAYS SEEMED LIKE A STUPID IDEA TO ME.... you are AT THE MERCY of everyone on the road, on the street, the elements, etc etc etc etc... AND, this is a possession that you FREQUENTLY HAVE TO LEAVE SOMEWHERE!!! what other pricey item do you do...
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    in retrospect about falling in love w/ a chick

    lesser girls ARE deeper and have more complexity in their personal makeup and don't have the complexes of hot chicks. this is why the best of all worlds are chicks who were not always hot. who've known both worlds. this is probably the best balanced of chicks. "hit weight watchers! hot...
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    Club Failure....

    this sounds stupid but watch HITCH when it comes to dancing. that one little step helps you keep time with the music. keep doing that to music. then ADD ON TOP. how to do that? watch dancers... at clubs. mtv. big tip - make your neck work. most people don't move their heads. looks...
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    dateless, girlless, se*less, careless

    DO YOU ACTUALLY EVER ASK ANYONE OUT?! delta
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    Easy way to get more attraction

    right... so basically: 1. be in a place where you can meet women 2. don't be a pathetic person 3. keep trying. this indeed is the basis for all dj theory... it seems to me that the difference between guys who have women in their lives and those that don't is that those who don't don't even...
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    Bling bling - How much would you pay for decent sunglasses?

    2 points: 1. price is not necessarily indicative of EFFICACY. there are a lot of inexpensive sunglasses that you can get at sporting good stores that provide 100% UVA/UVB protection for your eyes and not only tints but reduces the amount of light entering your eye (effectively a neutral...
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