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If you had 4 other possible dates you were working on, she wouldn't be an issue. There's a hint in there... Some guys get mad and get short term results. More power to them... I don't bother since it usually means I lose control of the situation (as in, she has the upper hand and...

Leave a message where? Home? Don't. She has caller ID and will know you called. Her friend will probably have given her your number, so don't make excuses about her not knowing it's you. Even if he didn't, don't make excuses about her not knowing it's you since women aced Phone...

You got a live one!!! :D

If she's playing a game, it's pretty lame. I think she is---even though she may not be conscious of what she's doing...it's an instinctual thing... Otherwise, reconsider your girl. The facts: --A 5'-nothing anorexic AFC twerp has been pursuing her for 2+ years. He disgusts her (believe...

I mostly go with D'Angelos' take on this... You got the first part right---plan action dates that don't have expences built in. Finish the thought, then---most guys do "dates" that cost something up front when you should reverse it and do these things after a few months (or whenever) after...

Oooo, forgot to address Terry's issue. Wondering if this is what is happening, Terry... Years ago I dated someone at work (before I knew better and before it got ugly...) and twice while we were openly dating a girl came up and started openly hitting on me in front of the GF. By hitting...

Like, no shyt. You can do anything you want. Anything. Cross the street whenever you want. PROVE you got the right of way and then---crippled---you can bytch about how you were right. You're crippled. But WTF, you were right! These people exist---usually they're very angry...

You write like teenage girls talk...nonstop and without pauses, without breaks, without inflection. Most of us are over 20 yrs old and need things like punctuation and paragraphs. Pattern recognition: XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX...

Ok, she's cutting you some slack here. The... is weak at best and shows insecurity and desperation and worse otherwise...and then this... is weak X10. It is that "" close---yes, that, like "" that, close to a wuss begging for a date using "pretty please". She's didn't say that and is...

I was going to say what Nightwing said but in different terms, but he beat me to it and I can't improve on it. Anyway, being "in touch with your feelings" is a source of strength for a guy. But "acting like a woman" based on that is not. Better stated: acting feminine based on that is not a...

Talk. Get number. Have date + kiss close. Live to tell the tale--repeat 20X. Life ain't bad, is it dude? Congrats...you're already practicing a half-dozen things at the same time and doing well.

Cosmo. It takes a lot of balls to go up and buy it at the counter, though. :rolleyes:

badger, jeezus, you already know the answer, don't you? A 9.5??? If it costs less than hiring a $500-an-hour professional to get the same, stay with her. Hell, maybe you'll save money with a professional call-girl, who knows? If your GF costs you more than said $500/hr call-girl, move...

If you like going to clubs, go. If you like dancing, go. If not, find a new date (I won't say "GF" since a month is too early to earn that title.)

You're finding that fine line Becker, that's what you're doing. Which is probably why you're getting some opinionated posts on either side. Anyway--I know what you're talking about. I think it is an early stage DJ thing where you are what you should be (yourself) when you are just being...

Kinda interesting---we've had women here come and go. Some here hate them, others don't mind. I don't mind--in fact, they tend to be a bit more interesting than what you usually encounter and their input is invaluable. Think about it--if they were the usual woman you run into, they wouldn't...

Strange thought----sounds like he's doing the female job and testing her interest level like a woman obsesses about and tests our interest level. That might explain the over-analyizing.

Report back, any results should be interesting. You'll probably know within the first 5 words from her what her take on it is. I got confirmation on that technique working, and even being desired---regardless of everyone knowing about that technique---from a woman at work who complained that...

<gingerly stepping between combatants raising flame-throwers just before triggers are pulled back full....> Oscar---there are so many different types of humor that you may have a few already and not recognize it. For example, I read D'Angeles' or D'Angelos' (I forget the name) examples of...