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Heard somewhere that weed increases the progesterone or decreases the testosterone (was it that doc on Loveline--??? dunno--I run across it every 6 months and my memory fades on this...) --- it may render you incoherent and/or paranoid, but I think the good doctor was saying it increases your...

Third language? Getting off track here---old joke: Person who can speak 3 languages? Tri-lingual. Person who can speak 2 languages? Bi-lingual. Person who can speak 1 language? American. <cue rimshot here> Anyway, I know enough Spanish to work in a kitchen. The rest I learned...

Damn--I remember when that stuff was said about me <shudder> and I never want to go back to it. I'm not sure when it changed, I just noticed that I haven't heard it in a long time. Somewhere between now and then something changed. So, just to toss this in the mix--I'm not saying it...

The issue that remains open, though, since I'm seeing her giving you a big ol' green light, is: have you set something up with her and how is it going? She's not being defensive or cagey about making her time available for you (as would normally be expected), she's probably broadcasting other...

Hans Solo: "I know." Or look her in they eyes and smile. Or look her in the eyes and kiss her briefly. I usually keep the stupid look on my face and hope it works this time... Seriously, though, this last March I had two women tell me that in the space of a week--it didn't throw me...

One option with the massage with the 2nd Maria (whom you relaxed into a semi-coma) would be too make it more sensual (move to the tail, etc.) which I have seen work before ;) and another option that works is to break it up---mid message, get up and change the music, start a conversation and...

Ah....asking a girl if she is free Wed or Thurs usually shows her that YOU are desperate and don't have much of a social life, so I think you could call it even---yes? Mitraz---go check the bible on pointers on asking a girl out. Usually you don't want to have some vague, wishy-washy "are...

How about not even letting it get to the phone-call stage??? No more "if you're not doing something this weekend, give me a call.." Make a plan--a firm plan, no options--and ask her out. If she can't make it and doesn't counter-offer, don't waste any more time and next her. If she...

The question is time. Ditch 'em for 3+ years (everyone's figure is different...) And if they were good friends, check in after that and see if it's possible.

No more set-up. MOVE! Sounds like you need to learn how to step it up to the next level if this is a recurring prob.

Um...you need more than 2 weeks. :D

Something else I noticed... The MDJ or SDJ status used to be based on the number of posts. Then the Mods switched to the quality and type of participation and the number of posts that a register contributed here (I don't think they have a formula, it's probably a consensus decision thru...

Normally I ignore the "goodbye and farewell" type posts (70%+ of the time they come back chastened, btw..) I lurked a long time. Then I had to post, had to ask a question. So I had to register. I posted occaisionally and really relied on a number of MDJs and SDJs and just a bunch of...

It's something of a test going on here... Sustain has part of an answer for this--assuming this testing her means of manipulating you into being her white knight (her big man, her protector--which is a big southern thing, but not limited there..) If you want and feel the need to step into...

Disclaimer: if you want to skip reading a lot of text, just go up and re-read BG's post above. _____________________ I wouldn't call them "tests", I would call them "signalling". She's demonstrating her desirability and making sure you notice. So notice. You do that by going up and...

If they already know the score, you don't do much more than you would normally do. In fact, maybe less since you will have less explaining to do (they know the score, remember?) You will have to disabuse them of any idea that you will leave your wife, which may kill your chances with them...

Don't apologize whether or not you want to be with her again. You would apologize (and not in e-mail) only if you DID something egregious (embarrassed her publicly, intentionally hurt her, etc.) The apology (while a noble thing in certain circumstances) is often the first thing an AFC thinks...

They're picking up information. This gets processed through their intuition. They can tell about your current and future financial and social prospects based on where you live, in what house you live, what car is parked outside it... ...and what car you drive... They'll know where you...