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Always remember that a girl giving you her number is the same as her giving you a ticket to "stand in line" for the ride. It is NOT the ride itself. The more we can keep this in mind, the more we're better able to manage our expectations once we DO get women's contact info. VU

JPlaya, The truth is that ALL girls have a select set of "no compromise" criteria that they use when it comes to who they decide to date. So if you're going after a girl who has already DECIDED that she doesn't want to date men of a different race--------then there's NOTHING you can do about...

Squirrels, Personally, I've found that the key to escape the crushing banality and disappointment of both dreams deferred AND dreams "come true" is to spend more time engaging in VERTICAL THINKING as opposed to just mostly "horizontal thinking". Try actively engaging in pursuits that elevate...

Yo Karma, We go a long way back, soldier. On "So Suave" and off "So Suave". Using our online personas and without using these online personas. A lot of us "Vets" have been on many missions together that have made us "think", have made us "argue", have made us "laugh", and most of...

Pandora, Understand that women, far more than men, have their sense of self worth link unfairly to just their looks. I suspect that a woman's appearance is judged even MORE harshly by some of the "other" women who are closest to them. Friends, Family, Organizational Associates, etc... So, why...

Ah...this is a familiar topic that never seems to get old, I see. As has ALSO been said before by many here...the widest range of success in life and success with women is usually found by avoiding the "nice guy/jerk guy" or "good guy/bad guy" extremes. Victory (pardon the pun) is usually...

Always remember that a girl giving you her number is the same as her giving you a ticket to "stand in line" for the ride. It is NOT the ride itself. The more we can keep this in mind, the more we're better able to manage our expectations. VU

Yes. I've experienced similar situations. I like to call it "The second chance at getting another crack at the one who got away" phenomenon. Enjoy it, bro'. Keep your wits about you and keep your feet on the ground as you proceed with her--------but still ENJOY it. Who knows...it's possible...

Hey, here's a test you can use the next time you're with her: Without warning------whip out your DYCK and whip out your DOLLARS at the same time...and whichever one she reaches for FIRST is the one she loves the MOST.:yes: Just kidding...(or AM I?) VU

I don't see anything wrong with women (or men) dressing in a way that they believe will highlight their assets. But for everyone, there comes a time where what you wear starts to highlight how much you DON'T "still have it" as opposed to how much you "do". Of course, the difference between...

The validity of Internet Flakes are always a little tougher to pinpoint because sometimes you don't have enough information to make a defiinitive judgment. In cases like this, sometimes ALL you have to go by is your dating/relationship instincts.

A good indication of when it might be time for you to leave a relationship is whenever you find yourself wanting to be AWAY from her more than you want to be WITH her. If you find yourself ready to leave at the first sign of ANY disagreement...it's probably time for you to be "LOOKING AT THE...

Renegades of Funk, A man who walks into a room KNOWING and "feeling like" he's one of the greatest guys in the WORLD, "never" worries too much about what "other people" think about him. Rundown a mental checklist of everything that makes you "great", keep that shyt in mind, mentally rehearse...

High Rez, This girl has no use for you. She's probably only texting you to amuse herself. I wouldn't even be surprised if she's making fun of your attempts to "stay in contact" with her when she talks about you to her girlfriends. Stop being her court jester. You were put on this earth to be...

Zekko and BlackwaterPark, Something interesting for men to keep in mind is that the definition of "chump behavior" can differ based on both the woman and the man in question-------AND also the situation within which they're engaging each other. Chump Behavior can actually be a variety of...

Not sure where the Spiritual Intelligence Officer/Tactical Officer "Interceptor" is these days...but one thing I know for sure: The POWER of positivity in his posts LIVE ON. RESPECT. VU

When it reaches the point where guys feel like they have to start checking Facebook for "updates" on their relationship status with some chick, then they'd better realize that they actually have BIGGER issues going on than WHATEVER that particular woman chooses to type onto some random social...

Whenever you find out that a chick would rather post on her Facebook "wall" than enjoy the company of a real life, INTERESTED man, then there's two things that she's just proved beyond a shadow of a doubt: Number One: She thinks that spending time with people "who AIN'T there" is more exciting...

Yo 5String Your choice of ally (wife) continues to IMPRESS, my man. Any woman who would be so bold in her rejection of another guy's attention PROVES that she's satisfied with the choice of man that she's already made (5String). Most women of lower caliber (and definitely those women with...

StevieD, It appears that you have an endgame in mind that transcends just sex alone. A way to help you answer your own question is to first ask yourself THIS question: What's more important to you at this moment in time: To get the sex. or to get the sex AND to be able to enjoy some sort of...