You gotta think of other things. Find distractions.
Learn to be more exoverted than introverted. When you go out to sarge try not to put so much meaning to the girls you meet.
Everytime your inner mind says something negative catch it and say something positive (even though you may not beleive...
Keep in mind guys that LACK of odour is not a reliable indicator of her Not having an STD. Always presume theres a possiblity that she may have an STD regradless. (better safe than sorry)
Good post Downlow. One of my friends is a register NLPer. I have to ask him for more info.
Anchoring confidence does work. Keep in mind there might be other issues beneath fear that is causing the problem. Such as feelings of shame, embarrasment, guilt (in particular if you had a religious...
I can say I have improve over the last few months. In part because I have a friend that keeps pushing me on this subject. Its really good to have a coach.
I have also been given some good advice here for some of the issues and problems I have been getting. I also improved because I get moral...
"Is it alright to just give up on girls?"
No its NOT! Because we will beat the living daylights out of you if you do! Yeah we know where you live buddy! :rolleyes:
You know I dont know anything about the Gunwitch method. My main focus has been on deAngelo's material.
For those who have done the Gunwitch thing how does it compare to others like deAngelo, Carlos Xuma, Lance Mason etc????
People still talk about music, sports in many age groups all the way to their 40's.
Talk about food (like different types of ethnic dishes), movies, hobbies, interesting books, interesteing or weird people you have met, Tv shows etc.
She cant sue you. Its ridiculous. Unless you say something slanderous that isnt true or cause some sort of physical or mental injury.
Now if your perceived as stalking her then I would stopped immediatly and move on. Its not worth it.
I'm glad to hear that. Its good to have a set of mantras you can say daily.
Like "Everyday in everyway I'm getting better and better"
"I will not revert back to my old self"
"I'm a lean kickass machine"
"I'm the prize"
"I love how I look and I'm not ashame of it"
etc.
Yeah I'm a highly sensitive as well. But I understand how to combat it better now.
Its partly because you might be too much of an introvert and you put too much meaning in women. I would try to learn to be more an exovert. Focus exo-verted more than inward. Socialize more dont stay home too...
It stands for A Frustrated Chump. Meaning someone who is unable to get girls.
Its a term that is used in the seduction community. I believe it might have been started by one of these seduction gurus like David deAngelo???? (not 100% sure who started the term). You'll find more terms used out...
Yeah HAPPINESS is where it all starts. You have to have that within yourself or the rest of the stuff is going to be futile.
When you are Happy and content with yourself (to a degree at least) women will notice that.
Your born with certain biological traits. Plastic surgery, exercise, muscle building products can have some effect. Of course dont go overboard like Michael Jackson.
Be cautious that your not developing OCD. People have wasted their lives day dreaming. Its all about balance. Dont forget you have to LIVE LIFE too. Youth once lost will Never come back. Dont waste your youth. (I know I have wasted some of my youth)
Talking to a girl is not wasteful. Its...
I understand your problem. Your too much of an introvert. You need to work more torawrds being an exovert. (I'm an introvert so I tend to spot out other introverts easier than other guys.)
Too much chatter in the brain is the main problem (I have the same problem but is slowly overcomming it)...
Add also understanding body language Yours and Hers.
Find out topics to talk about on a date. Learn about her interests etc.
(of course be ****y and Funny while at it)
Hey my Good Friend! I really appreciate your posts. You know I enjoy reading them and find them tremendously informative. Its trusted information from a relaibale source.
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