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Actually Powertrip, I think buying a girl a drink is okay as well -- it all depends on how you do it. If your drink is empty, and she doesn't have one, AND you've been talking to her for a while, buying her a drink isn't a bad idea. It's classy. What's $5 in the grand scheme of things? If...

I think there ought to be a course in college based on the 48 Laws of Power. Anyone else agree? ------------------ It could happen to you, just like it happened to me, there is simply no immunity, there's no guarantee...

In response to VeryBadGirl: I would agree with you on the integrity part. However, one of the primary reasons people cheat is not because they are trying to get away with something, but because something is missing from their current relationship. Now, many people would say that the cheater...

"Here's the unglamorous truth - You choose 'the one' as part of a careful long-term strategic plan." -- WildThang I couldn't have said it better myself. Of course, doing so goes against the concepts of "chance meeting" or "love at first sight." ------------------ It could happen to you, just...

Originally posted by Wyldfire: Staying hard core DJ long term WILL chase away the good women because they won't put up with a man who tries to make her feel insecure or who doesn't respect and value her. ___________________________________________ A DJ does not make a woman feel insecure, or...

I really enjoy reading posts that take a sentence or two of one of my postings out of context, and then engage in ad hominem attacks against me personally. Regardless, the entire paragraph from my previous post read: "It's still pretty clear that you haven't adopted the DJ mindset as your own...

I have a friend of mine who appears to have been "playing games" with his girlfriend (and for the last three years, live-in girlfriend) for the past FIVE YEARS. I say "appears" because in reality, he isn't. If she walked out the door tomorrow, he would move on with his life without missing a...

Now that I think about it, I probably should have posted this on the Tips board. ------------------ It could happen to you, just like it happened to me, there is simply no immunity, there's no guarantee...

Originally posted by penkitten: live and learn right? then carry those experiences forward ... ________________________ In a simplified way, yes. Unfortunately, while some people do indeed learn from their mistakes, they never let go of the pain associated with it. You need not wait for "time...

"Today is the first day of the rest of your life." -- origin unknown. I'm sure you've heard or read the foregoing phrase numerous times, but I bet you've never really understood it. Essentially, you need to forget about your past mistakes, or rather, forget about the disappointment and pain...

Although I'm currently dating someone, I don't care much for the bar and club scene anymore. Like Trickynick wrote, the scene's expensive, and your odds are much lower of a successful hookup with quality. When my girlfriend isn't staying over (and even when she is), I'm at the gym. On Friday...

Very nice post. Your understanding of Zen is quite impressive. ------------------ It could happen to you, just like it happened to me, there is simply no immunity, there's no guarantee...

The rule about multiple women applies no matter what stage of life you are in. In high school, it is especially important to date around - you'll appear more popular, and more importantly, more DESIREABLE to have as a "borefriend." Just remember one thing about dealing with high school girls...

Lordclem, To clarify the sentence you quoted, I am not telling men to learn about things that will impress a beautiful woman. To the contrary, as with anything else, a man should learn about those things in which HE is interested. Most men don't know what beautiful women are interested in...

As a reader of this web site, I assume you want to have your pick of attractive women for sex, a relationship, or both. If that is truly one of the things you want, why haven’t achieved your goal? Why do you continuously fail, and each time question your abilities or even your self-worth as a...

Actually, toward the beginning of my relationship with my girlfriend, she had left a distinct piece of lingerie on top of one of my dressers. I jokingly asked her whether she left it there so other women would see and get the message. She didn't deny it... There is no legitimate reason for...

I faced a similar situation with my current girlfriend. At the beginning, I never let her keep her stuff at my place. I gave her a toothbrush, and said that was my limit. Thereafter, her shampoo made it to my apartment, and every now and then, she leaves underwear, etc... For now, I don't...

After spending almost a year on this forum, I’ve noticed hundreds of posts that start out: “I like this girl but…” “I can’t talk to her…” “I don’t have…” “I don’ know…” “Why did she…” “My parents didn’t…” Frankly, I’m sick and tired of hearing people whine about their problems. The truth is...

I think both BClarke and Neuromancer make valid points concerning how to avoid wasting time on a woman that is not interested. If a woman believes that you are a busy guy, and that you have numerous other opportunities available, BClark's approach will likely be more successful. On the other...

TheDude, I couldn't have said it better -- No woman's problems are more important than your own. A key principle to being a DJ is that while you are respectful of others, you must always put yourself first. No exceptions. If a woman expects you to put her problems first, you must tell her...