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There is nothing wrong with going after a girl that is in a relationship. If you wait for her to get out of the relationship, you will be waiting a long, long time, and will likely not be the guy that gets her. Remember, if you are the boyfriend, it is YOUR JOB to keep a woman interested in...

Staring down the barrel of thirty-one (31) here on Friday. Right now I'm dating a 26 year old woman who has a very good career and a bright future. As a DJ with a great career myself, I can see the games younger women play, and frankly, I don't like playing them. It's almost not worth the...

The key word in this thread seems to be the word "approach." The word, however, can mean anything from walking up to a woman cold and spouting some line to accidentally bumping into a woman and starting a conversation. How a woman reacts depends on whether you give her an opportunity to raise...

Although I don't agree with your tone or the simplistic advice you dispense, you do raise a valid point. There are times to ask for advice, and there times to take action. Nothing on this board should "feel" new to anyone. Every guy that reads this board "knows" when a woman is disrespecting...

I like a strong, self confident man who isn't afraid to go after what he wants. Too bad more of you aren't that way! Bye now, Gwen Hmmm... My first reaction when I read the foregoing was, wow, were we just insulted? Then I...

Someone once said: "People spend more time planning a two-week vacation than they do planning the rest of their lives...." How much effort did you put into planning your education? How much effort have you put into planning your career? How much effort have you put into planning your...

I agree wholeheartedly. Most of the things women do in dealing with men are for selfish purposes. Unfortunately, women don't consciously realize this fact. Indeed, it is rare for women to take responsibility for their choices. On the other hand, it's pretty rare for men to do the same. But...

I agree completely. Another thing to do after you turn around and grind your behind into her is to grab her arms and put them around your chest or waist. If you have a good body, she'll get a chance to feel your muscles without being seen doing it in public. If her hands are around your...

Thought I would repost here what I originally posted in the Discussion Forum -- things seem to get lost on that board after a while: Many of you who read this board have come across the concept of dating "role reversal." For those of you who are in, or about to enter your early to mid 20s, read...

I too am a reformed "nice guy." Over the past 5-6 years I've put up with a great deal of garbage from women, just for a chance at long-term sex. Recently, my life underwent a tremendous change. First, I discovered this web site and forum. Second, I switched to a much higher paying job...

Thanks for the compliment Cynical! I get a real kick out of your postings as well. Postscript to my prior posting: My female friend called me just a short time ago to "continue our discussion" about Challenge Guy's original posting (I thought it was over -- I guess I was wrong). She...

I know I probably broke a cardinal rule, but I showed this column to a female friend of mine. At first, she called it chauvanistic, childish, that it only described a "small minority" of women, etc... After she was done belittling it, I asked her point blank if she had done any of these...

I agree with most of your comments Persuader. You're absolutely right in characterizing the situation as "two can play at that game." Most men do not realize that they have as much power to "manipulate" women as women have to manipulate men. I use the term "manipulate" because the women who...

Recently, several postings have addressed the fickleness of female decision-making. That is, the unwillingness (conscious or otherwise) of a woman to make up her mind about anything, and about men in particular. I'm sure you've asked yourself the question "why won't she decide to [fill in the...

Thanks ChrisFl. It all comes down to attitude -- women can and will compete for you -- IF you make yourself a valuable commodity.

Actually, I think the analogy is accurate. My experience with women has taught me that if a woman is not receptive, she is rejecting the OPPORTUNITY to be with me, but is not rejecting ME because she doesn't know anything about me. ------------------ It could happen to you, just like it...