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Exactly. Sometimes you need to completely transform yourself psychologically and physically to become someone else to escape a past that was not a result of your own choices. If you have the time and the money to do it, by all means do so. Remember, you only get one life, so let it be a life...

You're entitled to your opinion. That's why this is a discussion board. Without different opinions, there wouldn't be any discussion. On the other hand, I would have appreciated some reasoning for why my posting was wrong. Now, with that out of the way, here are some links to various...

Good looking guys are often the beneficiaries of positive reinforcement from a very young age. As a result, they become "natural" PUAs/DJs. Men who grew up fat, suffered from severe acne, skinny, woefully poor eyesight, etc... ("dorks") were the recipients of negative reinforcement...

I agree with Cesare. The issue is your insecurity about losing your girlfriend. Here's a newsflash for you -- if she wants to flirt/talk/cheat with other men there is nothing you can do about it. What you can do is control how you react to such behavior. Although the 36th Law of Power is not...

The 34th Law of Power seems to address Blayde's point: 34. Be Royal In Your Own Fashion: Act Like A King To Be Treated Like One. The way you carry yourself will often determine how you are treated: In the long-run, appearing vulgar or common will make people disrespect you. For a king...

You have a second... REd you have a second. Perhaps the readers of your post should consider it in light of the 28th Law of Power: 28. Enter Action With Boldness. If you are unsure of a course of action, do not attempt it. Your doubts and hesitations will infect your execution...

Consider the following laws from the 48 laws of power: 4. Always Say Less Than Necessary When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it...

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I actually agree with Blayde on this one. It’s not in your best interest to delude yourself into thinking that you can land 9s and 10s, when the reality is that you can’t. The higher your perceived value (e.g., good looks or money to burn) the better your chances are of landing 9s and 10s...

"The fact is, there is no science supporting any of the claims made for so-called nitric oxide supplements. There is no science showing they have any effect on nitric oxide levels and certainly no science showing in effects on muscle growth or increased performance."...

The only time you should shave down completely is if you're entering a bodybuilding contest. As another poster stated, use some electric beard trimmers to keep your Sasquatch hair under control. Shortening your body hair to 1/4 inch should be sufficient enough for your girlfriend. Otherwise...

A woman's request to drive your car is nothing more than an attempt to assert some degree of control over you and what you consider one of your most prized possessions. Your answer to her question "can I drive?" should be no in most cases. If, however, you have a 10 year old car like I do, the...

You’re not meant to get up every day at a certain time and go to a boring job and get crappy money, etc… Most people “choose” to do so when faced with very limited options – options that are of their own making. Every decision you make affects your life in some way. The key is recognizing...

There's a big difference between commanding respect, and acting like a punk whose ego has been bruised. Let's take your examples in order: Somebody chatted up my GF? Proper response: If the person is still around, you may want to hold your girlfriend's hand or show some other small...

The truth hurts, doesn't it? You're quite welcome. It's clear to me that you have a great deal more to learn. Good luck.

It's absolutely pathetic (although human nature) to ask how long it usually takes to go from AFC to DJ. In asking the question, it seems like you want to know to gauge whether it's worth the time and effort that it takes to make the "transformation." I've got news for you, it will take as...

The reason is insecurity The reason most men ask about how (or whether) to take their relationship with a particular woman to the next level is because they are insecure. A man needs to let a woman decide whether (and when) to take a relationship to the next level (e.g. exclusivity). Don't...

You need to look beyond the fact that men often deride and scorn women, and look closely at *why* various men do so. For some men, it is the classic reaction of scorning that which they can't have. For others, and in particular, some of the posters on this and other male-oriented websites, it...

I've posted this link previously, but I thought it would be a good refresher for people on this thread to read this guy's site. http://niceguy.dearingfilm.com/Sexism.php

The point made by the 85 year old woman is correct. You learn more from making mistakes, than you do in avoiding them. However, the point is not to make mistakes that you know are mistakes out of laziness or lack of preparation. The kind of mistakes I believe she was referring to are those...