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Could people please give suggestions on some books about dating? Are there any books which actually *HELP?*

I agree with this wholeheartedly, if your stupid inbred f*cked up friends "try" and put you down in front of other people...DO NOT LET IT GET TO YOU. These pricks are openly showcasing what they do not like about themselves, so try not to even sink to their level with a comeback (hold back and...

I practically gave my opinion (when it was needed) other than that, I was listening. So that *may* be an attractive quality (should I move the topics of conversation more towards the direction on emotion and romance?) if so, should it just naturally progress to that point or do I have to sway...

Thanks for the advice so far, you guys would probably smack the living hell out of me if I told you that we talked close to an hour in her car (total privacy) :trouble: :kick: :whistle:. She is a Catholic (sticks to her beliefs, and I respect that) should this make me a little bit weary if I...

if you can memorize this and accept it then, you will be at peace with yourself: not everyone in this world/life is going to like you in that certain way which you want them to, for whatever reason (e.g. looks, personality, behaviour, money etc.)

Hmmm...interesting observation, I didn't think of it that way. I think this first meeting was to test the waters (I can see she is interested, I have to maintain that) but also, the next time we do meet, I'll step it up on kino (I got the impression that this girl likes to take things slow...

also about what you were saying about observation and listening (the tone of her voice sounded sincere yet curious, and she was constantly smiling throughout the evening) i of course did the same with smiling and spoke with intent (reciprocated it back) BTW: for the works of Leil Lowndes...

Believe me, I did my fair share of listening (and gave my thoughts on what she had to say). The conversation lasted for quite some time (5 1/2 hrs. :rockon: ) is that too long or there really is no bad length for a conversation (if it kept flowing, I guess I was doing my job :)). So are there...

I just went out with a girl last night, and she is quite the conversationalist, strong in her beliefs, and, very enjoyable to talk to. I guess I held my own quite well because we did *NOT* have shallow conversation (we both thought it was boring) we had some pretty deep discussions. She taking...

what do you know about this girl? has she told you what she is interested in? sometimes its not about what you think is a good idea for a first meeting, if she has divulged information to what she enjoys doing, put some thought into it

One of my friends told me yesterday (as I was going on about a particular girl, thinking of ways to ask her out, when she would be free etc.) he gave me an example of a problem "If I go into a washroom to wash my hands, and as I go to grab a piece of paper towel while my hands are wet, I won't...

Introducing your female friends (at the beginning) would have been a grand idea but, it looks like from the perspective of the waitress you are seeing, she is getting the wrong impression, and, that is your fault. Always think ahead before doing things.

another thing *KEY* to learning is, 'social proximity', that is very important to be aware of

it's all in your head..so true, just go and do it *NO EXCUSES*

people..this person seems to get it (claims to be 16 yrs. old), you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

a piece of advice: talk to 1s and 2s (don't think you're good enough to talk to them), you need to develop your inner game (just like learning the alphabet e.g. ABCs...123s) because all you're doing is creating bad habits (weak game) when talking to more attractive women.

Go pick up "The Book of Five Rings" by Miyamoto Musashi, and read the chapter on 'Zen'. It will answer most of your question(s) if you are willing to open your mind to it. BTW: I'm serious

exactly..don't try to involve yourself with her "problems", instead let her try and figure them out herself (no one can solve another persons problems, its up to that person to find an answer).

Begin with the end in mind, plot out how you want it to turn out. Just be firm and upfront about it, they already know what you want so there is no use in beating around the bush, just say it. You're not asking them a question, you want to make a statement e.g. "We should get together on X at...