Women who think Highly of themselves...

[ssj245]

Maybe its something I need to get over or just something I dont like, but women who tend to think of themselves highly or in a manner that they are too good to talk to you or start a conversation with you just piss me off.

I feel that just because you look good or w/e reason that you justify yourself with that you give off this vibe or body language that says I dont care about you at all or have any intrest in you talking to me.

I dont like these girls because it makes it harder for me to talk to them, it makes me uneasy not knowing whether or not they want me to talk to them.

If someone talks to me it makes me feel better that at least they talked back with me, but if a hot girl with such a attitude appeared, I would be apprehensive to apporach her and speak to her cuz I dont know what her response will be.

Its the bodylanguage that gives it away, they stick their noses up into the air and it just feels that they look down apon everyone. It makes it seem that they are in a "higher" social status when I havent seen anything that has put her their in the first place other that her looks are good.

You guys understand what I am saying, when you look at two people, one person has that warm inviting look and feel to them and the other person has that, If you try and talk I might reject you and make you feel bad if I dont like you.

I guess because a girl looks good makes her feel like the world belongs to her.

Its funny though its these type of girls that I want to hookup with, I percieve them as at a higher social status because all they do is act like it.

 

[JonJack]

You don't seem to understand what it is exactly that you desire. Or maybe you don't have the will to take the action to acquire that which you desire. Or it could be that you just want to post something even if it's nonsensical dribble.

Reread what you just posted. You don't like 'these' girls and yet you want to hookup with them. If it's just about getting into their pvssy, you don't exactly have to like them to achieve that. If you want a serious meaningful relationship with these 'high class' girls, then you better start liking them for exactly that.

 

[Deadly_Assassin]

I am guessing you approach chicks that are 8 or above in looks?

You have to bear in mind that you are not the only guy who tries approaching them. They probably get perved at by every guy that sees them. They also get approached a lot of times as well. They might see you as being just another guy whos approaching them to get in their pants? They may also use their snobby behaviour to weed out the average males. You just have to learn to get past their ***** shields and approach them in a unique way that will get their attention.

I am sorry, I can not elaborate any more or offer any solutions to this problem as I am in the same boat as you.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Look her square in the eye then hand her a tampon and tell her: "This is for the cvnt."

. . . Walk away

 

[Jariel]

I echo exactly what Deadly Assassin said and many of my girlfriends and female friends have confirmed this. It's just their way of deterring all the losers who keep hitting on them.

If you can break the ice and show these girls that you're a decent guy, and show interest in getting to know them as individuals, they do lower their b1tch shields.

 

[Latinoman]

Maybe its something I need to get over or just something I dont like, but women who tend to think of themselves highly or in a manner that they are too good to talk to you or start a conversation with you just piss me off.

I feel that just because you look good or w/e reason that you justify yourself with that you give off this vibe or body language that says I dont care about you at all or have any intrest in you talking to me.

I dont like these girls because it makes it harder for me to talk to them, it makes me uneasy not knowing whether or not they want me to talk to them.

....Its funny though its these type of girls that I want to hookup with, I percieve them as at a higher social status because all they do is act like it.

Listen...how many times you have heard or read a guy asking "Does she likes me?" after a very good looking woman "smiles" at him. Have you heard the same guy asking the same question if a very ugly woman "smiles" at him?

That's what very good looking woman has to face EVERY DAY! Men that misunderstand their (women) nice behavior. Men that confuse that behavior with "attraction", when in reality they are trying to be nice.

So, those women must put some kind of wall to let those men know from the start that they are not interested or available.

Some of those women already have boyfriends or are married. I mean, if they are very good looking, the chances of having a boyfriend are very high. Discouraging other men from talking to them is not bad and is, in fact, a clear sign of respect for their men.

Now, if all you want to do is "talk"; then why don't you approach average or ugly women? Why not old ladies?

Why can you be selective and they can't?

Do you view yourself in the same category?

Think about it.

Personally, if a woman doesn't send me any positive sign...I don't even bother approaching her. If she shows positive signs, then I give her a treat: My charm. And that opens the door for attraction.

 

[white cloud 8]

a piece of advice: talk to 1s and 2s (don't think you're good enough to talk to them), you need to develop your inner game (just like learning the alphabet e.g. ABCs...123s) because all you're doing is creating bad habits (weak game) when talking to more attractive women.

 

[El MonoLoco]

Are you actually approaching these girls or just basing your assumptions on their body language?


Talk to them...if they don't want to talk to you they will let you know....if they don't want to talk to you ....their loss...move on..

 

[puffpuffgive]

I dont like these girls because it makes it harder for me to talk to them, it makes me uneasy not knowing whether or not they want me to talk to them.

It doesn't matter if they want you to talk to them or not.. If you think that she is worth your time go and talk to her.

While your doing this make sure that you give her a few of neghits, this always works. It doesn't matter how high their ego/status is because it immediately puts you higher than them, she'll be the one thinking that you're the one that has a higher status and you know what that means.

 

[lifeisgood89]

Oh you're sounding a little entitled dude. It sucks to be rejected by women out your league and Off course you want to date these women -they're hot, but once dating a woman that conceided you will find that they lack depth. They really aren't as confident as they act, you should see how they behave around men they perceive worthy - dignity out the window. They treat people this way because it makes them feel better about themselves. Don't let ****ty people bring you down, work on yourself and avoid counts because the truth is that not all hotties are full of themselves.

 

[Mike32ct]

ssj245 posted this question 12 years ago. So he’s probably 257 years old now lol.

Yes plenty of women are full of themselves. But you can’t let it phase you and affect your confidence at all.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

There is a huge difference between confidence/thinking highly of oneself, and being an obnoxious tw@t.

There's a classic concurrent example of Natalie Nunn, who is currently on the TV show Big Brother here in the UK - I only watch because my flatmate happens to watch, and it can be quite an interesting social view at times.

The point is, the Natalie woman, who apparently somehow is married and some sort of US celebrity in the US, is the most self-righteous, aggressive and frankly intolerable woman, no, person I have ever seen on television. But you know what, her behavior and attitude is that of someone who is deeply insecure just below the surface. The rest of the contestants are famous for at least something, even if it is acting or getting naked, or playing sport or whatever. This woman is famous for nothing, except being famous; and it is painfully apparent to everyone, especially her.

It's very easy to spot these kinds of people with a few years of experience. It's a bit like, the bark is worse than the bite.

I've seen similar personalities with some women I've met. The more effort someone seems to make appearing 'confident', entertaining, well-balanced and self-assured, the less so they often are.

 

[wifehunter]

I avoid people who have an unrealistic view of themselves. They literally make me sick. Like nauseous pukey sick. I suppose I'd feel the same way if I had smelled a dead body.

 

[zekko]

I avoid people who have an unrealistic view of themselves. They literally make me sick. Like nauseous pukey sick.

That's one reason I never liked it when PUAs tell you to say "We're all 10s". It's ridiculous, especially since I don't believe in 10s.

I've also wondered what the big attraction is to smirking, everybody here talks about how attractive it is for a guy to smirk. Give them the alpha smirk, and all. That sounds like just more similarly obnoxious behavior.

 

[Mike32ct]

That's one reason I never liked it when PUAs tell you to say "We're all 10s". It's ridiculous, especially since I don't believe in 10s.

That always made my skin crawl too. Or “delusional self-confidence.”

A guy can have an IDGAF attitude and some decent confidence without necessarily having to pretend he’s the greatest thing ever.

I've also wondered what the big attraction is to smirking, everybody here talks about how attractive it is for a guy to smirk. Give them the alpha smirk, and all. That sounds like just more similarly obnoxious behavior.

I think the smirk advice originated because some PUAs were having disastrous results from c&f / negging / ballbusting / “azzhole game.”

If you aren’t good looking AND you try those methods with a deadpan serious facial expression, forget it. You WILL insult the woman.

The smirk was supposed to show “I’m not really a dik. I’m just joking with you.”
Not my style, but to each their own.

 

[zekko]

The smirk was supposed to show “I’m not really a dik. I’m just joking with you.”
Not my style, but to each their own.

See, I was thinking a smirk was a kind of sleezy smile that says "I think I'm superior to you". So I looked it up. The Google Dictionary says:
"smile in an irritatingly smug, conceited, or silly way".
I guess you're thinking it's the silly way. Also, if you look down on someone, I guess that implies some dominance, so there's probably some validity to the idea.

Dictionary.com gives the definition as:
"to smile in an affected, smug, or offensively familiar way".
Offensively familiar sounds like it could be slightly suggestive. Maybe we should be practicing our alpha smirks after all, lol.
I don't know, it just looks goofy to me.

 

[Mike32ct]

Understood. I went slightly off-topic with a different angle on smirks.

But I get your point perfectly. It does look goofy.

But then I’m not a chick either. I don’t need (or understand) joking/arrogant/teasing/smirking/sarcastic “sexual tension” crap lol.

You’re either attracted to someone and want to bhang them or not lol.

 

[zekko]

But then I’m not a chick either. I don’t need (or understand) joking/arrogant/teasing/smirking/sarcastic “sexual tension” crap lol.

Yeah, as men we don't get turned on by girls looking down on us in amusement, thinking that they are superior to us like a bratty little brother. It can be hard to understand.

 

[Mike32ct]

Yeah, as men we don't get turned on by girls looking down on us in amusement, thinking that they are superior to us like a bratty little brother. It can be hard to understand.

Precisely. Thanks.

 

[Bible_Belt]

all they do is act.

qft that little out-of-context snippet. You are assuming that you can really know what someone else is thinking, and about a topic as complex as self-worth. It is usually an act. Most people spend most of their lives acting, especially women in regard to their self-image.