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    how do you ask a girl out on a date with confidence??

    The last time I asked a girl out, it went something like this: Me: Are you doing anything tonight (or Wednesday or Thursday or Friday)? Me: (If she says no) I planned on going to blah blah blah. I was wondering if you like to join me?
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    Reality Check for short guys

    loooolllllllll!!!! Anyone who is insecure about his looks should read this line over and over again because it is so fvckin true!!!!!!
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    Rule on "I love you!"

    While I hate the idea of using rules with girls, waiting for the girl to say I love you first is a rule that every guy should follow.
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    Reality Check for short guys

    While it's true that women like taller guys (even at 5'10'', I sometimes feel inadequate), the less the short guy cares about his height, the better his chances are with the girl.
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    Why do some people "make it" here at Sosuave and some people don't...your thoughts?

    Simple. I think the guys that "make it" are the ones that don't really need any help but they think that they do. This site works as a placebo for them. They think that they are becoming successful based on what they read here but in reality, they are just becoming more assertive and putting...
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    Proof That Myspace Chicks Are Easy

    That "dirty little secret" line was pretty sweet.
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    Looks: How do you know where you stand?

    I actually don't think clubs are a good place for a guy to judge his looks. Too many b!tch shields. We all know that a girl who will give you looks outside of the club will also be the same girl who will reject you once inside the club.
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    Guys always asking my G/F out

    If she wanted a taller, hotter, and smoother person she would never have chosen you in the first place. The fact that she made you her boyfriend should be enough assurance that you have nothing to worry about. But then again, infidelity does exist.
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    Girls looks fade quicker than I remember

    Keep in mind that a lot girls and guys who "lost their magic" still have residual confidence. They still remember their "glory days" where they "ruled the school" and it always serves as an ego boost. Meanwhile, some of the guys that went from "dork to stud" and the girls that went from "not...
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    Looks: How do you know where you stand?

    Thanks for the replies. I wasn't really asking a question about whether or not you should be confident in yourself. I think we all know the answer to that one. My question was how do you quantify your looks? Do you do so by the amount of numbers/rejections you receive? The way girls look at...
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    Looks: How do you know where you stand?

    Due to the flurry of "Do Looks Matter" posts, I was wondering how you guys honestly rate yourself. I consider myself a 6. Sometimes, I think I am goodlooking and other times, I consider myself average at best. Sometimes, I will get looks from attractive girls, other times I get nothing. Even...
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    How do I ask her out? (Not as straight forward as you might think)

    Ask her out on a date before your friend does. Beat that sucka to the punch. Also, let her know from the start that you are interested in her. Most guys end up in the friends zone because they try to conceal their intentions because they are scared of coming on too strong. Don't do that!
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    How do/did you get over the ONE who got away?

    Just keep yourself busy. It doesn't have to be with other girls.
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    Looks and "facial structure"

    Everything matters. Here is my order of what I think girls find important. 1. Facial structure 2. Height 3. Build 4. Body weight 5. Voice (very overlooked)
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    In college, how do I meet girls?

    Here is your plan. Go to a party. Get a buzz. Look for approachable girls on the dance floor (girls who are always looking around the room are the girls that want guys to approach them). Go for a grind session. If you are still dancing with the same girl after four songs, go for a kiss...
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    Woman beater = alpha male?

    Women don't like women beaters. They do like a$$holes though. But you can be an alpha male a$$hole without resorting to your fists. Just ignore their feelings and cheat on them any chance you get.
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    How do I get rid of an AW (at work) without seeming an A-hole?

    If she puts out, then send her to me.
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    She said ive changed

    To me, she seems threatened by your newfound confidence. Don't let her break you down.
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    difference in approach black girls for white guy?

    I think that if you are a white guy, you should approach black girls with a laid-back personality. For black guys, black girls usually like them more aggressive, more outspoken, and slightly arrogant, so it's better to act in contrast to that because it provides them with something new. Plus...
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