She said ive changed

Noeltech8907

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Hey guys, heres the deal I was just hanging out talking with some of my buddies having a good time and my ex and one of her friends showed up and started talking to us. Everyone was talking and laughing for a good 10 min then out of nowhere my ex turns to me and says...

Her: Youv'e changed.
Me: oh really how so?
Her: your all ****y now, who have you been hanging out with?

then i just shrugged my shoulders and went on talking to my friends. But i was just wondering, maybe im too ****y? or maybe she didnt meen it like that, who knows. what do you guys think.
 

Damian

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"You've changed too.
You've gotten a bit more observant."

Then go back to whatever conversation thread you were on. It really doesn't matter if anybody tells you outright. The indirect responses are what you should be paying attention to. If your attitude makes people laugh and enjoy themselves, you have it down the right path. If people are turned off by your ****iness, then try to turn it down a bit. Don't read too much into what she said. It's an insignificant little crumb in the larger scheme of things.

-Damian
 

Juan_Man

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To me, she seems threatened by your newfound confidence. Don't let her break you down.
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

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Warlord

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Hey pirate if you have nothing to contribute other than one words thinking you're hot, why don't you stop posting on SoSuave?
 

SamePendo

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Most guys here are "not photogenic".

NoelTech... are you happier now that you are ****y? ... Well, then what that woman says is un-important.

"Yeah, you've changed too, your nose grew"

"Arnold Schwartzenegger(sp?), Don King, Mike Tyson, ... you know, the usual"
 

flexion_

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I wouldn't think twice about what an ex-GF said to me. Don't waste your braincells on trying to figure it out.
 
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