Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
in terms of physical appeal/attraction, IT IS the basis for initial attraction which is undeniable. However everything afterwards, CAN be based on personality, social status, wealth (power).ethnomethodologist said:Height doesn't matter MUCH, smile doesn't matter MUCH, Eyes don't matter MUCH, Build doesn't matter MUCH, and voice doesn't matter MUCH.
This is all evident from the fact that if you have either a lot of money, leadership skills, or powerful words, you can still get whatever you want in life. Money buys what you need, power gathers what you need, and words draw what you need.