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This thread makes me wonder what being a twentysomething in the '80s would have been like. :cool:

I recently chatted with an old oneitis. It was a nice exchange. She is still a sweet girl. She doesn't have a facebook or myspace but I did find photos of her lovey dovey with a guy who can only be her boyfriend. I remember the hurt I felt back in uni seeing her walk at night holding hands...

My older brother. Tall, goodlooking, and smooth. Always gets the girl. Too bad he's getting up there in age though. But then again, I'm not that far behind. :crackup:

I'm not sure if this is some kind of attack on my sexuality but I'll disregard it. Anyways, I was saying that kissing among straight women is acceptable by our society because no one gets grossed out by it as they would if men were to do the same thing. It's just like observing two girls...

I might be a little cynical but I think that I've had enough experiences with hurt to know that anything you had with a girl can end at any time. Another guy doesn't even have to be in the picture. You're only 17. When you get older, you will learn how to deal with these emotions better and...

LOL, I would love to use that line but I would be too scared to! I could see it as being a nice ice breaker if things were going kind of rough upon first meeting. I think it would only work though if the father was Americanized enough to understand the humor (like what "da bomb" means). But...

Like I said, this is not a hard fast rule. If she does NOTHING, then suggest SOMETHING.

I agree. While both the guy and the girl want the relationship, the trouble usually starts when the guy is trying to control the course of the relationship. Leave that to her and follow along. It doesn't mean that you can't make some decisions (this is not a hard fast rule) but let her decide...

You need to not care. A relationship can end at anytime regardless of what other guy is around. The sooner you get it into your head that love and relationships are a total crap shoot in terms of how long they last, the better off you will be. Anytime she is talking to another guy, have a...

I haven't applied it yet (haven't found a girl worth pursuing at the moment) but I can't see how it cannot work.

Cold approaching works either if you are at a place where girls are expected to be approached (like a bar, club, or some type of party) or if you can find some good reason to talk to them (like the girl is reading a book that you have read or if you have seen her at an event before). Don't...

Yes, because you will be sharing in her pain.

Follow What She Does: 1. If she shows interest, ask her out. 2. If she insults you, neghit back. 3. If she compliments you, compliment her back. 4. If she shows you some love, show some back. 5. If she pulls away, you pull back as well.

Girls do it because it's acceptable. Simple.

Exactly. They want compliments.

This can work to your advantage since girls like a challenge.

Give the girl the benefit of the doubt. If she really wants to be friends, great. If she is an attention wh0re, leave. Either way, you will be too busy to know the difference as you are moving on to other girls for your romantic endeavors.

I agree with your post to an extent. Sometimes, the girl just realizes that she really didn't want a serious relationship or was not ready for one and departs. If a girl has strong interest in you, she will ignore the small things that you have done wrong. Guys do the same thing, so why...

I wouldn't do it. If you have become a new person, then give a new girl a chance.

Good move. Of course, all that matters though is how much interest the girl had in you at that point.