The LJBF reversal move!!!

[DonGorgon]

Ok so I have been dating this 20 year old for 2 weeks... We have made out but not F'ed yet. She calls me 90% and I call her 10% of the time! She is trying to branch swing to me from her BF... So yesterday we hung out , she is extremely emotional and hence does not respond well to sarcasm! I made a jerk joke that annoyed her and she is hung up on the fact that i lied to her about my age!

So anyway, while mad she says:

Her: maybe we should just be friends!?
Me: I did not get your number to be your friend so i dont think that will work
Her: Well I feel like we need to slow down and get to know each other better
Me: I agree its only been 2 weeks
Her: So what do you wanna call it
Me : Not sure Its too soon to call it anything
Her : OK so we are courting then!?
Me : Yeh thats it.

Now, to make sure that i was not friend zoned I said:

Me: Let me feel your lips
HEr: *blushing and smiling

So we make out...

I will reduce contact with this girl to pull back some power from her make her wonder and think she may loose me.

 

[Dole]

I like.
SEXY TIME SOON.

 

[Smack]

Um ... what's so special about this that it is some sort of miracle move?

 

[DonGorgon]

Um ... what's so special about this that it is some sort of miracle move?

Its not a miracle just a way to salvage a situation that many men panic in and give up on...

 

[Juan_Man]

Good move. Of course, all that matters though is how much interest the girl had in you at that point.

 

[DonGorgon]

Good move. Of course, all that matters though is how much interest the girl had in you at that point.

You are right!! She was passionately making out with me after all that but i still think i need to disconnect a little ...

This situation is frustrating cause I never pushed for anything at all from the start she was acting like she wanted me to be her man in 1 weeks time, which is crazy! then it seemed like she came to her senses and and noticed she was rushing things and looking silly .. So she comes with this we should slow down talk.

She is a 7 in the face 9 in body so she has many many options and a boyfriend too..LOL she is young confused and horny.. I would have F closed on the first date but she was on the rag... Then she felt bad about the fact that she wanted to give it up soo soon...

I am going to spin other plates an not waste time obsessing over her.. Thank god I have 2 steady F buddies...

 

[Mavrick]

Yes, slow down. If you're rushing, it's a sign of desperation. Never jump into anything quickly with a woman because you don't even know her, and you don't know what you'll end up with. She needs to know that she has to prove herself to you. Slow and easy wins this race.

Another thing to remember is that her interest will get lower and lower as you keep rushing into it. The more you back off, the more interest she'll have.

 

[jdawgmcb]

Slow it down, but otherwise epic turnaround.

Definitely gonna have to try out in field.

 

[Telos]

Epic, cinematic even. I like it. Although I still kind of question whether it will hurt you in the long run, but probably not. If it was me I would have completely agreed with her and went over the top with my own regrets to make her second guess herself and then detach. Either way that's a ****ing awesome turnaround.

 

[n00bPimp]

Hopefully by "reduce contact" you do not mean call only every other day. I think you should give it a week perhaps, ignore at least 50% of her calls, and stick to your word!

 

[BadBoyJake]

I agree with the other posters here, Take it slow and easy with her. Do not back down though by giving in to her. Once you start supplicating, it's all over boy. Take the lead at all times.

 

[DonGorgon]

Hopefully by "reduce contact" you do not mean call only every other day. I think you should give it a week perhaps, ignore at least 50% of her calls, and stick to your word!

The funny thing is she would call me all the time and text all the time .. i never got a chance to call her unless i had just missed her call...

I plan to have no contact for at least a week! I am not gonna call her and if she does not call then i will consider it over.

Yes, slow down. If you're rushing, it's a sign of desperation. Never jump into anything quickly with a woman because you don't even know her, and you don't know what you'll end up with. She needs to know that she has to prove herself to you. Slow and easy wins this race.

Another thing to remember is that her interest will get lower and lower as you keep rushing into it. The more you back off, the more interest she'll have.

Yeh i know i have been there and done that... The tricky thing is the way that women will shower you with affection early on to make you drop your guard and show weakness then if you do they will pullback suddenly...

Epic, cinematic even. I like it. Although I still kind of question whether it will hurt you in the long run, but probably not. If it was me I would have completely agreed with her and went over the top with my own regrets to make her second guess herself and then detach. Either way that's a ****ing awesome turnaround.

I did kind of do the agreeing thing by saying its only been to week how could we call it anything at all....LOL

But I am seeking comfort in my F'buddies and going out to find some new women this weekend..

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

Her: So what do you wanna call it
Me : Not sure Its too soon to call it anything
Her : OK so we are courting then!?
Me : Yeh thats it.

Not hating on you bro..but this quote alone strikes me as odd. Like you're keyboard jockeying. Courting? Who the f*ck still uses the word courting? I don't think my grandma uses the word courting. Bjezus...

With all those posts in such a short amount of time, I am amazed you have time to actually date broham...

Regardless, play on playa!

 

[DonGorgon]

Not hating on you bro..but this quote alone strikes me as odd. Like you're keyboard jockeying. Courting? Who the f*ck still uses the word courting? I don't think my grandma uses the word courting. Bjezus...

With all those posts in such a short amount of time, I am amazed you have time to actually date broham...

Regardless, play on playa!

LOL.... true! she came up with that world and we both laughed at how old and odd it sounded..LOL She is in a relationship and trying to branch swing as women do so she is trying to save face while she deals with her ending relationship.. She wants me to think she is trust worthy cause she would not F me while still with her man..BS!!! But in the end I wont really care if i dont get to F!

Yeh i have many posts cause i love to discuss human issues..

 

[Miguel]

Good stuff Don-G, I'm actually gunna add that to my list of dirty tricks. (Congrats.)

 

[Black suit]

I love how you turned the situation around! Good job!

 

[DonGorgon]

I love how you turned the situation around! Good job!

I guess i can only know if this really worked if she calls me... so fare she has not... Today i deleted her number to ensure that i never call her during a weak moment... Luckily I have my 2 steady F buddies And tonight i am going to find a replacement for her...

 

[OTB]

Her: maybe we should just be friends!?
Me: I did not get your number to be your friend so i dont think that will work
Her: Well I feel like we need to slow down and get to know each other better
Me: I agree its only been 2 weeks
Her: So what do you wanna call it
Me : Not sure Its too soon to call it anything
Her : OK so we are courting then!?
Me : Yeh thats it.

Now, to make sure that i was not friend zoned I said:

Me: Let me feel your lips
HEr: *blushing and smiling

So we make out...

That is fvcking great dude!

I just recently got this chick's number (an HB 8.5) ----->
And, I was thinking of how to be a 100% sure of not falling into the
Friend Zone......
And this seems like a totally fool-proof way!

 

[OTB]

By the way, in regards to Dole ----->

You have one of the funniest signatures I have seen on this site!!! LMAO

By far.........:crackup:

 

[DonGorgon]

OK good update!!!!!

So last week wednesday was the last day we talked when i did the reversal... Then saturday evening she texted and called me from her job .. I missed the call and ignored the text for 5 hours then I texted back - "Yes!?"
She gets off work at 10pm an called me at 10:01...LOL I was in line to get in a night club and picked up so she could know that i was out and not just sitting around waiting for her...

Her: Hey whats up how are you?
Me: I am doin great... and you?
Her: Long day at work but I wanted to talk to you..
Me: What?? sorry what?
Her: Are you out its so noisy can you hear me?
Me: Yeh you should call me tomorrow..
Her: ok...

So i knew i was back in at that point but still held my ground and waited for her to call on Sunday , again 10pm on the dot she calls and we talk till 1:30 am... LOL She proclaimed that she is single now etc etc... She addmited to having very strong sexual attraction to me and asked for a date on Wednesday...

SO YES GENTLEMEN THIS TACTIC DID WORK!!!!! But a critical factor is have no contact for at least 3 to 5 days after the initial reversal.. I think that was very important