It's Not Worth It Anymore

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Society has changed. Women and men have changed for the worse. Everbody is out for themselves and hardly anyone has integrity anymore. While this affects both men and women, I do believe women have gone much further.

From feeling entitled to a comfortable life just because you're beautiful, to running around and having sex every bit as much as any guy would. If a woman wants to be a hor, fine. But then don't present yourself as some virtuous person. They always say it's a double standard for men, because we try to sleep with many different women, and don't get called out on it. True, but we also don't walk around acting like we're more pure than the driven snow either.

Face it fellas, about 1 chick in 1000 these days is marriage material. I'm not saying you can't go out and have fun with all the women you want, but chances are that the one you do marry is going to be a mistake.
 

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Yes, society is corrupt. The women are fvcked. Everyone is in the matrix.

Finding a girl that is marriage material? Well, thats is the mans choice to have good judgement. But, most of the women today are not marraige material.
 

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Only constant struggle breeds a strong people who are willing to work hard not only for their own life but for the lives of others and who value commonly held morals and integrity.

Todays world offers trivial struggles, does not reward the good while heartily rewarding the wicked, props up greed over generosity, says image is everything while character means little, and this is why todays world is full of weak men and women and absolutely rife with corruption and dissillusionment.

When I think about our modern world a great poem by Yeates known as the Second Coming, comes to mind...

"Turning and turning in the widening gyre
The falcon cannot hear the falconer;
Things fall apart; the centre cannot hold;
Mere anarchy is loosed upon the world,
The blood-dimmed tide is loosed, and everywhere
The ceremony of innocence is drowned;
The best lack all conviction, while the worst
Are full of passionate intensity.
Surely some revelation is at hand;
Surely the Second Coming is at hand.
The Second Coming! Hardly are those words out
When a vast image out of Spiritus Mundi
Troubles my sight: somewhere in sands of the desert
A shape with lion body and the head of a man,
A gaze blank and pitiless as the sun,
Is moving its slow thighs, while all about it
Reel shadows of the indignant desert birds.
The darkness drops again; but now I know
That twenty centuries of stony sleep
Were vexed to nightmare by a rocking cradle,
And what rough beast, its hour come round at last,
Slouches towards Bethlehem to be born?
"
 

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You know, there are ways to manipulate the system without giving into life's little games. It's the people who actually play into these facades that women put up that are at the bottom of this system, playing the game as hard as they can.

But then you have those who know how the game is played, and how the women work. These individuals didn't reach this level naturally, but through experience, victories, and losses through women and life. These men are the ones who don't need to play the game, because they are naturally players in this world. They skim along the top as their own individual and pluck out females who they desire.

In other words, you can either go with the grain or go against it. Women will never change. They will always instinctively go for the superior male. And in some rights, that's a good thing. It makes things much easier for US. You can complain that women are like this, or you can enjoy it.

And then the there's always the final question of "Oh well how about when I get married?" When you get married, you find yourself a nice woman without any baggage. You live your life to the fullest, shooting for all your goals. So if that woman is to leave you, little of you has really been lost.
 

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This thread makes me wonder what being a twentysomething in the '80s would have been like. :cool:
 

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The only way for women to "succeed" in a man made capitalist society is to become more masculine...

and that is what you are seeing... as a matter of fact the efficiency bound capitalist machine requires that women become "earners and producers" to achieve optimal efficiency.. Everyone over 16 needs to be working to make the rich as rich as they can be..


Yes we have gone from human animals to human monsters!

So. make sure you teeth are long and sharp! and your skin tougher than leather...

Many comfortable social concepts (LTRs, marriage, family etc) are now obsolete and considered absurd and irrational and just dont work...

WHY YOU ASK?

The excessive competition brought on by capitalism divides humans at our moist basic social levels...
 

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justiceseeker said:
Society has changed. Women and men have changed for the worse. Everbody is out for themselves and hardly anyone has integrity anymore. While this affects both men and women, I do believe women have gone much further.

Face it fellas, about 1 chick in 1000 these days is marriage material. I'm not saying you can't go out and have fun with all the women you want, but chances are that the one you do marry is going to be a mistake.
There are alot of good girls out there that are marriage material, but they won't come knock on your door while you are watching Friends. You have to put the effort in the find one. If girls say they are pure and virtuous when they are really not, that is there problem, not yours. If you can't sleep with one who says so, move on to another one.

Don't take yourself and life so seriously.
 

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justiceseeker said:
Society has changed. Women and men have changed for the worse. .
I completely agree. I was having this conversation with my mom just last night. I was telling her how the morals and values she was raised with and taught me have gone out the window and I no longer believe too many of the thing she taught me.. I was also telling her that I no longer want kids because there aren't any women left worth having them with. She told me I was full of it s**t and had no idea what I was talking about. Typical answer I get from people when I discuss the matrix with people.
 

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What you are seeking- you are finding.

The VERY difficult part of this game is looking in the mirror.
If you are looking about and seeing self centered manipulative people, it very likely that is EXACTLY what you are being and what you are focused on.

I know its hard to think about things this way but ask yourself... Would I rather be right (that its everyone else but you)? Or would you rather get what you want?

Because staying in that irresponsible mindset is just going to keep giving you what you are already getting.

Stop manipulating, focus out -ward (meaning of others) and you will find like minded people...

Or just be right... and miserable.
 

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justiceseeker said:
Society has changed. Women and men have changed for the worse. Everbody is out for themselves and hardly anyone has integrity anymore. While this affects both men and women, I do believe women have gone much further.

From feeling entitled to a comfortable life just because you're beautiful, to running around and having sex every bit as much as any guy would. If a woman wants to be a hor, fine. But then don't present yourself as some virtuous person. They always say it's a double standard for men, because we try to sleep with many different women, and don't get called out on it. True, but we also don't walk around acting like we're more pure than the driven snow either.

Face it fellas, about 1 chick in 1000 these days is marriage material. I'm not saying you can't go out and have fun with all the women you want, but chances are that the one you do marry is going to be a mistake.
I tend to agree, which is why I don't worry too much about marriage. I figure if I am meant to meet the right one, it will happen; if not, hell, being single has been fun for my first 26 years, why wouldn't it continue to be fun?

Don't let all the negativity interfere with the enjoyment of life. Just get out there and live.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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