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I end up pulling chick's hair about 2-3 times a week in clubs with that opener, hahahaha. I then follow up with "Hmmm, well you might just be using strong glue...How do I know?? At least it smells nice..." Blah blah blah. Like most negs it works best on pretty girls.

Dude. Sex is ultimately for procreation. The pleasure bit is to make sure we don't forget to do it, and for chicks to screen bad partners because poor lovers don't understand women. But if you bang a chick for a while, and it's good/frequent/intimate i.e. satisfying for her, she cannot help...

Hahah. I was also going to say this girl didn't seem worth the effort, but perhaps there is a sweet and timid female hiding under the BS and posturing. You never know unless you can get past her shields. If she is worthless then scram and/or make friends. No loss. Wisdom gained.

A classic case of synthesizing a 'bad boy' attitude from thin air. These kinds of women don't want bad boys. They want someone they cannot push around. Your behaviour sparked attraction probably because she respected you for not being a doormat. More basically it meant you were 'different' to...

Hey I'm learning too....the way I'm tacking this stuff is with some structure, i.e. keeping a very simple structure memorised in my head so I follow it automatically. Then I can concentrate on the content of what I'm saying, rather than trying to self-coach myself mid-conversation. Later alone...

Last night there was a lull in the number of approachable honeys in the venue, so I went looking for sullen stand-off-ish chicks (crossed arms, looked bored, vaguely angry) to chat up just for fun. It's masochistic to do that, but quite good for being on your toes and thinking quickly. My...

Yes....nevermind the criticisms. Men are technical, goal-oriented creatures, and in this FR Spirit Fingers has elevated it to an artfrom. This stuff is no different from any other PUA theory out there I've read, dudes. Bravo.

I am still building my game, but currently I just like going in unprepared and doing a quick scan for openers: general ice-breakers or negs. Even if the opener is so-so, she usually responds positively if she is a fun friendly type. If not, then I tease her/them about being shy or needing a good...

Jaysus...there is so much literature about technique around, on the Internet and off it. Dude, read some theory. The hard work's already been done by many others. Don't reinvent the wheel.

I thought Style, Mystery et al had already posted tons of free material on Usenet alt.seduction.fast and other forums a few years back. In my mind they have already paid their dues, however aggressively they are selling the same tips today. I think you've missed the whole point of SoSuave...

As far as I know, Strauss is still a freelance writer. This means that he does not have a regular income. Even a book like The Game that sells reasonably well will only peak during its initial release, then taper off. Distributors, agents and the tax man get the usual slices of any revenue...

I would, that's a given, assuming she's also attractive to me. B-man

I checked out Bass Lounge on Little Bourke in the Paramount Centre (near Exhibitionist Street). Friday night seems to be Asian night, but the music was loud-ish R&B. I got a very strong $8 Wild Turkey there (from unopened bottle). It had a lounge area but the place was a bit smokey for me. Got...

Way to go, bar-stud! Happy ending or not, at least you're getting out there and engaging the nightlife.

Having stubble is all well and good in public, but at work and with friends who need to talk to you in close proximity, it really is gross. I feel the same way if someone has whiskers. It's interesting though, and I might do some road-tests with stubble chatting up women. I think if you keep the...

I think you need more DJ/PUA theory under your belt. It's like public speaking: the better you know your stuff, the smoother your presentation will be. Read all of the DJ and PUA literature you can find, then re-read the most significant tips. Read books like The Game by Neil Strauss (a quick...

Heh heh. There's an interesting phenomenon that happens when I stop shaving for a few days because I can't be bothered: I get a few more interested looks from women out in public than usual. I have black hair, so the effect is quite pronounced, even with my olive complexion. I prefer being...

Einstein was indeed The Man.

Perhaps there is a chance to have it both ways. There's obviously a switch that gets flipped in women when they discover that you are entertaining more than one woman at the same time (alpha male, not needy, player, good in bed, and so on). When you get quizzed about your weekend, say...

True, many women may not have a razor sharp wit, but I've noticed that they can be funny in several other ways. I think you have to be flexible enough to look for these different moments of comedy from chicks. My last girlfriend liked to do voice impressions and she was bloody good at it. She...