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    Dancing - I suck

    Another recent dancing thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=99435
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    Melbourne Sarging Night. 21-24 Novemeber.

    Hmmm 18 year olds. Student night is Thursday nights in the CBD, so anywhere is good...The Loft, Little Flinders St (Velour Bar, Ikon). Should be able to get a list together and do a venue crawl one night. Count me in. Gin Palace is a good place to find some quality chicks. Ditto places like...
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    dancing tips

    Yes El MonoLoco, 1 - 2 - 3 - 4. That's it. Also, initially, it's easier to dance to music you are familiar with. When you know a song, you can do little movements in sync with particular moments. At the very least, when the beat pauses dead, as it does in some tracks, you don't want to be...
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    dancing tips

    Good advice above, but for total newbies, some more specific tips are probably needed. Showing someone in person (as in HITCH, good flick) is best, but how to sum it up in writing? A bit of drumming theory might help. Sorry if the following is ugly. - For most techno dance music, there are...
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    Destroying Social Phobias

    Huh? When I said "absorbing tactical information", I just meant looking for possible conversation topics: clothes, environment, weather, situation, etc. Now, what did you mean?
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    THIS is exactly how to overcome fear of approaching women!!

    Is this thread for real? I can't believe I'm even bothering to respond.
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    Blackdragon's Summer Time Apporach Journal

    I posted something in ShyRyder's thread today about voice exercises. Perhaps this will help you to, it helped me. It's best to address any vocal projection issues sooner rather than later. This is a purely technical hitch that is easy to improve. You don't want to get on top of it the same way I...
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    "I have a boyfriend"

    My two cents ($AUD) worth...I just posted this in another thread before reading this one. Upon hearing this line, I usually say something like this... HER: "Actually, I have a boyfriend." YOU: "You have a boyfriend? Well listen. He will be upset about the break-up at first, but over time, he...
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    ShyRyder's 36 approaches to the Next Level

    Regarding the "I have a boyfriend" response, the important thing is to anticipate that any girl you are chatting up will say this and be ready for it. That way, if she does drop this line, you are not thrown off by it. Have your own response ready and deliver it smoothly. I usually say...
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    Finding your confidence! Help me with your comments!

    Wow, great thread, Sapiens. I just read the whole thing start to finish here in the office. I'm going to lob over into your weblog in a second. I see that your main Weapon of Mass Attraction during the initial approach is a fast and genuinely funny wit, coupled with an ultra smooth delivery...
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    Destroying Social Phobias

    I just read it myself. It sure is worth another bump. I've even noticed things I have told others in here and in real life, e.g. talk to bar staff, befriend others in night spots, approach all people, not just women. No more Us and Them...get comfy talking to any stranger. Then when you want to...
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    Meeting women on the train, is it doable??

    What makes the train tough is people nearby eavsdropping. Note I said tough, but not impossible. I once did a cold approach on a nice brunette honey I saw on the platform who I thought may have given me favourable eye contact. When we boarded I made sure to sit next to her. Sadly, no positive...
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    My online game sucks

    Online game is the same as approaching women in person: what you think wouldn't work in a million years does, and your first instincts are totally ineffective. Women are aliens amongst us. You can't relate to them as you do with other blokes. This reminds me of the Seinfeld episode where George...
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    I put an HB9 ***** in her place, this was so ridiculous you gotta read it (short)

    Yeah I agree...good work most of the way. A basic rule of human relationships is: never give ultimatims unless you are in a win-win situation. The recipient usually rejects you out of spite, even if the result disavantages the person. Also keep in mind one of the most useful tips I got from this...
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    Dilema, Help

    I'm not sure Baseball Bat is a pickup artist in the DJ sense. My guess is that a large part of his game is all about stating his measurment, even if it's a last resort. If the girl is up for it, then bingo. Then again, picking up an STDs is then a risk. Still, I am reminded of the apocryphal...
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    Why can't I get myself to go out more?

    There may be some self-help e-books out there. Look at Amazon. Nothing beats real life practice, though. Get out there and jump into the fire. The book I recommended will give you an excellent grounding for how the emotional mind works in neurological terms. For instance, the amygdala is the key...
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    Why can't I get myself to go out more?

    BlahBBlah, I recommend reading a book called Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman. It puts what you are feeling into perspective. I got over shyness by thinking this: I hate being the centre of attention. But being shy draws attention to me, therefore I will pretend not to be shy. After a...
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    is it just me or is it EXTREMELY hard to find a decent women/girl?

    I feel for you. I think the frustration you are dealing with is the same fatigue that occurs when you are shopping for a new car. The experience just becomes very tiresome and you want to have enough luck to find something satisfactory just so you can stop looking. Perhaps you should try...
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    Do most 9's and tens suck in bed???

    Have you tried talking to this girl to see why she about as exciting as a dead roo in bed? Explain the way you are feeling, ask her if she is like that all the time. Perhaps she has an unusual fetish? There are lots of different sexualities and fetishes out there. For instance, the necrobabe...
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    Does this make me a bad guy?

    Life happens.
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