is it just me or is it EXTREMELY hard to find a decent women/girl?

[Badmannaz]

I mean seriously i d k but were i'm from it seems like every women I c that i find attractive
a. has a boyfriend
b.has atleast 3 guys she interested in

The last girl i was tryna mess with was talking to like 7 guys so i pulled out of the deal..it hurt my ego...+ i just didn't like how she needed so much attentio aka (AW)

Plus i have a job were theres women (HOT VERY) walking in everyday all day...there's not a day were the hottest women i have ever seen walks in...and she has "I'm taken" written all over her


Another thing is im not an ugly guy...a numerous people look at me and they say "you look like the player type" that's just because i dress good..

o and another thing..is it me? or is it that never do girls who you don't know look at you and NEVER express any signs attraction it's like there totally not interested but you on the other hand you see like 20 girls pass and out of that about 11 are hot...it's just i'm tired of this i want a GF so i don't have to worry about all this anymore...it just seems like every women in this world has a boyfriend or atleast they ALL and i mean ALL give off that vibe...help me out

 

[BBX]

Your 110% correct, its hard as f*ck to find a decent girl, just keep trying, thats all there is.

 

[Latinoman]

It is hard to find a decent woman. It is a LOT harder to find a real man or the "total package" of a man. So...what does that tell you?

It tells you that women have it worst.

Focus on yourself and learning yourself (notice that I'm not using the "be yerself" mantra) and working on yourself. And you shall become the prize. :yes:

 

[Latinoman]

"I mean seriously i d k but were i'm from it seems like every women I c that i find attractive
a. has a boyfriend
b.has atleast 3 guys she interested in"

Somebody in this board said that women were like monkey's...she won't let go of a branch until she gets hold of another. My point is...if she is very good looking, she would potentially have a boyfriend already. If that is the case, you will never know if she is in the "breaking up" stages (holding one branch before changing to another) and simply waiting for something better. Problem here is: do you want a woman that cheats?

And of course, ANY woman of worth will have SEVERAL guys interested in her.

"The last girl i was tryna mess with was talking to like 7 guys so i pulled out of the deal..it hurt my ego...+ i just didn't like how she needed so much attentio aka (AW)"

She can talk to whoever she wants. There ways to neutralize those insecure AW chicks. Problem is...as long as you understand that she is NOT LTR material...you are alright.

Plus i have a job were theres women (HOT VERY) walking in everyday all day...there's not a day were the hottest women i have ever seen walks in...and she has "I'm taken" written all over her"

Work is to do work...not pick women.


"Another thing is im not an ugly guy...a numerous people look at me and they say "you look like the player type" that's just because i dress good.."

Who cares what people say?


"o and another thing..is it me? or is it that never do girls who you don't know look at you and NEVER express any signs attraction it's like there totally not interested but you on the other hand you see like 20 girls pass and out of that about 11 are hot...it's just i'm tired of this i want a GF so i don't have to worry about all this anymore...it just seems like every women in this world has a boyfriend or atleast they ALL and i mean ALL give off that vibe...help me out"

Personally...when I approach somebody, I don't care what that person is thinking about me. I only care what I am thinking about that person. Now, would I approach a woman that has shown NO interest? Nope. I don't waste my time. I view myself as the prize. She should at least smile at me if I smile at her.

 

[Freewheelin Frank]

It is hard to find a decent woman. It is a LOT harder to find a real man or the "total package" of a man. So...what does that tell you?

It tells you that women have it worst.

Well yeah.. but women also aren't the ones who have to approach us. So I'd say that helps to even it out..

Focus on yourself and learning yourself (notice that I'm not using the "be yerself" mantra) and working on yourself. And you shall become the prize.

Thats what I am doing. I'm not really concerned with approaching them now because I view this period of my life as training. I've gotta train before I go out on the field and to me thats making myself prizeable like you say.

My ticket to being the prize is working out. I'm just going to keep at it and keep at until I get where I want. I'm not ugly, infact I've been told I'm very cute before- its just my body I need to work on.

I don't care if it takes me a couple more years(which it probably will-I started VERY fat) to get where I want, I won't give up. I figure once I get to the point I need to be at as far as my body, everything else will naturally start to fall in place. I won't feel as inhibited to approach and flirt because alot of my inhibition comes from the fact I'm just uncomfortable doing it because of how I look. Also I will FEEL better and therefore more confident and that will show.

So I kind of agree with what BBX or whoever it was was saying in their thread about looks mattering. If you get your physical appearance in order, I think other areas will tend to fall in line better.

 

[Boschy]

I feel for you. I think the frustration you are dealing with is the same fatigue that occurs when you are shopping for a new car. The experience just becomes very tiresome and you want to have enough luck to find something satisfactory just so you can stop looking.

Perhaps you should try trolling different places where women you like hang out. Your current environment has the talent but they are seemingly untouchable. Another suggestion is to ramp up your technique and perhaps add an element of flair to your appearance. If you want top shelf, you need to have the goods, or at least appear to have them. Good luck, mate!

 

[Wiesman44]

I think you all are nuts. Its so damn easy to find decent women. Its all a numbers game guys. If you're getting 10 #'s a week just from your daily activities, and 2 nights of bars / clubs, figure 2 women will be interested in you. 1 might be interested in a second date, and you figure this girl is garbage. oh well, thats 1 week wasted.

Think of the amount of women you can pick and chose from, with that strategy alone.

And its NOT difficult to get 10 #'s in a week.

 

[resilient]

And its NOT difficult to get 10 #'s in a week.

Exactly the right attitude. Approach, rapport, close. Wash, rinse, repeat.

If you're constantly in the field you'll get some success.

You have to see past your present needs and self image and know that the path you're on will lead to some success. If focusing too much on women is causing such frustration than find something else that benefits you more. IE. career, finances, hobbies, reading anything NOT involving women as the focus.

The focus must ALWAYS be on you.

When they see that you have your act together, they'll come hunting you as a success object. Just watch... It'll start with the UGs, Warpigs, or AWs, but it improves as you improve.

As pook says "the unfinished world(nice guy, AFC), brings unfinished women"

 

[mrRuckus]

It is hard to find a decent woman. It is a LOT harder to find a real man or the "total package" of a man. So...what does that tell you?

It tells you that women have it worst.

Completely false.

 

[Last Man Standing]

If you mean by "decent" a "non-hor", then yes, you are correct!!! Women today are on a penis crusade - "a decent woman" is an archaic term!!!!!

 

[Badmannaz]

It is hard to find a decent woman. It is a LOT harder to find a real man or the "total package" of a man. So...what does that tell you?

It tells you that women have it worst.

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Okay this is totally on a non gay attitude...if god took all of us guys who have just posted on this thread and made us into women (FROM BIRTH) do you actually think we would b sitting here writing about this??? NO!!!

O i love the part about getting it in #'s i've already made plans for this weekend to the club..i've picked up techniques and im thinking of starting an approach journal..i get alot of practice at my job because i get about 75% of women at my job that are the kind of women im interested in...

 

[JonJack]

This thread is confusing. Is the issue:

A) That decent women/girls are hard to find?
or
B) That attractive women/girls have boyfriends or are already interested in some other guy?
or
C) That desperation is a debilitating plague?

You wanna mess with some girl and she has like 7 guys all over her and so you pull out and you feel hurt and you try and justify this hurt by convincing yourself that she's probably an AW? What sort of shyt is this?

You see a hot chick and she's too hot to be single and so you don't approach or make any contact and you feel like it's such a waste and you try and justify this wasted opportunity with this girl by convincing yourself that she's already taken? What sort of shyt is this?

Badmannaz, you've got some serious issues with the choices that you make man. The problem is not because of women/girls, the problem is with how you fear the rejection because you desperately desire one to call your own. Either that, or your standards are way too high for just a girlfriend.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

Blame MTV (man I hate MTV). MTV and the feminist movement have totally ruined the supply of decent women.

 

[Latinoman]

I think you all are nuts. Its so damn easy to find decent women. Its all a numbers game guys. If you're getting 10 #'s a week just from your daily activities, and 2 nights of bars / clubs, figure 2 women will be interested in you. 1 might be interested in a second date, and you figure this girl is garbage. oh well, thats 1 week wasted.

You call a woman that goes to a bar to get drunk and look for man "decent"? And who wants "decent"? I personally want a woman that RESPECTS me and is a lady in public, but a slut in bed.

"Think of the amount of women you can pick and chose from, with that strategy alone.

And its NOT difficult to get 10 #'s in a week.

I think he is not having problems finding women. I think his problem is finding a "good woman".