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Tough situation. To defuse insults in any situation, use humour to turn it around and leave the antagonist with nothing. What I would have said: "Yeah that's right, I was having group sex with four guys, and I loved it. Best night of my life." Wait for his response. I'd guess though that he...

Well, I have a paunch and used to worry about it when approaching women, since the belt buckle dips down when you have a paunch, and it's kind of obvious. But then I thought, well bugger it, any guy who has a (ahem) feature like that or is going bald and who still goes after the ladies has to be...

I think the missing element here is love. If you don't love the woman, then there will be intellectual and/or sexual reasons keeping you with her, and you'll keep questioning and justifying your position and value. If she is in love with you and you don't feel the same way, then you are the...

Some get attached quickly, some take months. The next girl (if there is a next one, you stud, heh heh) could be the complete opposite. I agree with GGTW here and go with the flow, except keep in mind the guideline about trickle-feeding yourself to her. Don't tell her your whole life story just...

My response is in my sig. Nuff said.

You will find that about 90% of counter staff and shop assistants look up at you just before you leave them. I make it a habit of giving eye contact and smiling a bit, and/or taking note of his/her name during the sale and saying thanks ____.

There is a drop in testosterone immediately after orgasm, obviously. Like I said, that drop is temporary. Testosterone peaks in men every 30 minutes, with a large (tent) peak in the morning. Because this is medical information, the general patterns do not hold for all people. Let me repeat: the...

Well, depends what kind of bar it is. I know plenty that have tables free, especially early in the evening. When everthing is pumping and the band starts and drinks get spilled, well, obviously you can't have your nose in a book. So yeah, what I am saying is go out and not bother talking to...

I'm in the south-east burbs bayside. Aged 36 but look and dress younger. Let me know if another sortie is happening to chat-up the Melbabes.

I'm 36 but mix with younger crowds easily. (Ooopse did that sound too needy?!?!) :cool:

Man, sounds like a lost cause to me. Unless you can get her to remember you and see that she has some interest in you, then move on. But no harm in trying. You will have to be very specific about your meeting with her, and then be very specific about hooking up later. Think of a time, day...

I am 36, and therefore meet more women with kids, but they are older and therefore having kids is not seen as a black mark too much. Either way, the main problems with single mums are: (a) the ex-boyfriend/hubby father will always in the picture. Unless you make peace with him and preferably...

BlahBBlah, you are brave to post your predicament here. Good on you. Admitting you have a problem and asking for help is the first step to solving it, so well done. Unfortunately, this DJ forum is kind of a master-class post-graduate programme, not an orientation day seminar. What you are...

Moving on does not have to mean discounting the possibility of a relationship later on when her situation changes. Just keep her on the back burner and scope out other chicks. Your absence may even purk up her interest level in you, but this should not be the goal behind getting more contacts...

I'm no legal expert. Just some thoughts: if you are flying over there just to have sex, then you might as well go to a well-respected brothel. No risk of complications. If you wan to start a relationship with this girl, then know that long-distance relationships are very difficult to maintain (I...

Congratulations. This could be a combination of things. I'm fairly average looking, but because I am mixed race, a small percentage of women love the way I look. My guess is about 1 in 100 are in this bucket. When I meet one of these women, they try to pick me up, hahaha. The two give-aways are...

Biology 101 This theory about not masturbating...where is the supporting literature for your claim? I've read a book about hormones, and the peaks and troughs of your testosterone levels throughout the day vary, depending on many factors. It is true that your testosterone level drops sharply...

Meditation is relaxing but more importantly, it oxygenates the body. O2 is good for you. Do deep breathing even if you're not going out to chat up chicks.

All very amusing. I'm sure there is a 'dbot' in every discussion forum on the Internet. I wonder if s/he is the same person? Anyway...good 'reality check' post, mate. Although I laughed because even after your 'it is so simple' rant, you too had a set methodology and told us all about it...