Ricky,
You need to think of this like playing a sport. You're not a single guy looking for company. You are a guy going out to play his favorite sport; which just so happens be be going out and creating great interactions with women. You are not going out to pick up a girlfriend and change...
I have done a few speed dating events and they rock.
You need to be well dressed and come up with some clever and interesting routines based on the simple questions you'll ask and get asked. i.e. "what do you do for a living". "what do you do for fun" etc. You only have five minutes to chat...
In general, I'm annoyed that all these chicks keep posting on the forum. It's a forum for "Mature Men" and not for men and women. I don't know why mods don't police this better. I don't go posting on women forums. I'm not devaluing their contributions or saying that they can't contribute towards...
Jerry wrote:
I agree. However, there's a lot of good stuff in this thread and I find it ironic that you've chosen to focus on the one "negative" thing. Perhaps, this is how you look at a lot of things in your life, which is causing the problem?
Cesare Cardinali
What you should do is fill up your time doing some stuff that forces you to interact with others. Gym stuff, TV, computer, etc are all solo activities. You need to interact with people working towards something greater than yourself.
You should vollunteer for a cause. Help elderly people, be...
Bill,
You shouldn't stress about what to do when you see her because she really hasn't done anything *wrong* and neither have you. There's no obligation for her to call you back nor for you to call when she says "call me".
Essentially, you want to get girls eager to call you (or have you...
Bill wrote:
Dude, I can help with this. Either send me a PM or visit the following website and learn from a buddy of mine who gives workshops on this every topic.
www.fidentia.org
crowes wrote:
um...ok dude. How about you try one more time in English?
Seriously, I don't have any idea what you're talking about and I'd rather you just PM me with the background or start a separate thread about your gripe and we'll discuss.
Dr. Zaus wrote:
Amen to that. In...
Dr Zaus wrote:
Well here's how I see it. The dates are WHAT I WANT TO DO :). My focus for the first few dates is on my having fun and enjoying myself. Under this context, you'll never see me posting stuff about how I'm upset that a date didn't go well despite us having "a great...
Bill wrote:
Well here's the thing, you DID notice. And you showed her that by calling three times. Also, you want to be true to yourself. She pissed you off and you're giving her another chance. Go beyond trying to pretend that you didn't notice.
You want her to know that you see right...
I wouldn't call her in 7 to 9 days. What you should have done when she said "call me" was pull out your cell phone and dial right while she's standing in front of you. Then while her cell is ringing tell her "playing hard to get are we?". This should make her smile and pick up the phone. Then...
If you gave him mindblowing sex, then he wouldn't be needing other girls' phone numbers or kissing them. You've got to take some responsibility too here.
My opinion is that long distance relationships are tough already add to that the fact that you are older and don't see a future with him...
Ok, allow me to explain that quote to Dr. Zaus and co.
In general, I find that people who post about not being able to influence a girl's attraction usually have hang ups that they feel are preventing them from doing so. And instead of working on those hangups they prefer saying "there's...
Paradox wrote:
hmmm...never got asked my age before on a forum!, but I guess that's what he means by "crackdown".
If you want to know any personal details send me a PM. I'm old enough to post on this forum though.
Cesare Cardinali
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