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Well I am very happy this morning . I came to the Forum and read TommyD's post. The one above where he played pool with the girl. I have to say I am very satisfied to see someone is getting the point. I just want guys to get the 'feel' of handling the ladies in a way that works...

TommyD, Thanks for the support. Your posts are very interesting. You said what I just don't have the patience to say. The DJ way is not trickery just like you said. You see this so clearly. It's UNCOMMON, common sense. Sure, you could use it to create high interest and screw the girl...

NEVER GIVE AN INCH It doesn't matter if she is eighteen or eighty. It doesn't matter if she is Miss America or a '1'. You put all women through the SAME dating tips and tactics. It doesn't matter if she likes rock climbing or is in a wheelchair. It doesn't matter if she is from Brazil or...

That would have been perfect! I see what you mean about 'using the user'. That is very tricky. You have to stay emotionally detached. I have never done it. But I know you have to be an expert to do it. I might try it sometime for the experience. It doesn't seem worth it though. To return to...

Hi IQ, Let's clear up the confusion for you. Flirting was invented by women as an attention-seeking device. Society tells a woman that it is improper to ask a man out. So women flirt to get your attention to let you know, non verbally, of their ROMANTIC interest in you. It is not...

Will answer tomorrow night. Anti-Dump

You made only one mistake. Now that you know how to be a Don Juan from reading this site, you think you can change a past disinterested woman into an interested one. Can't be done. You can't start going back to all your old girlfriends and start doing the Don Juan stuff on them. They...

BYPS, My suggestions must really work if a nice guy like Devlar hates them with a passion. Look at that 'No,No,No,No,No'! Boy, you must be on to something very good if he is opposed to it THAT much. Anti-Dump

One way is to make sure you talk to her in person MOST of the time. Keep phone talk under an hour. Rarely talk on the phone. She has to see you in person, or she will be 'without' you. If you limit the phone and stop E-mails and limit messages, she will WANT you more. Her interest will rise...

At least you would start closer to home and reality. ------------------------------------------------------------------ Robert, you are right when you say the girls don't see the true insecurity in the Jerk. It sucks but that's the truth. They want strength and THAT'S the side they must...

Peak, Great post. I like the your 'Stop Light' example. I just might steal that. But I will give you the credit. Beautiful. I also like 'don't live your life in the uncertainty of the orange light'. How true. Anti-Dump

LittleDon, I understood your original post. I was trying to tie in that girl asking about your love life with girls initiating a relationship. To me, if a women asks about my love life a bell goes off. Why the hell is she asking? I didn't show any interest in her. Is she trying to hook me...

LittleDon, Well you certainly handled that very good. But next time remember this. When a girl INITIATES romance something bad is probably going to happen. That girl was INITIATING dating by asking you 'are you seeing anybody?' You didn't know this girl at all. So she...

Great post Terminator911. Keep up the good Don Juan work. Anti-Dump

Myth #6 A woman who is dating you really really likes you. 'TRUTH': She could have very LOW interest but you don't see it! Because your EGO can't believe a woman would go with a guy she is not really interested in. Yea, right. Anti-Dump

Excellent post. I like "the less women know about you, the more they want to know about you". Exactly. That's something nice guys don't have the slightest clue about. Anti-Dump

Great advice! Here's a guy that is using strategy to do BETTER. You gotta have a plan, man. A small change does get better results. It's TRUE! Here's me when I was a 'nice guy': "I'd LOVE to take you to dinner next week". Totally true. And a TOTAL LOSER! How desperate can a guy...

Exactly. Also, showing her frequent attention tells her other girls are giving you NO attention. So your 'value' is lowered that way. Great point Robert. AD [This message has been edited by Anti-Dump (edited 08-06-2000).]

GP, I am going to try that during this week. Interesting idea. It relates to being a mystery. Very good post. AD

I totally agree with MaMo. Goals are everything in life. Like Zig Ziglar,the motivational speaker said "How can you hit a target you DON'T HAVE?" Great post Mamo. AD