Changing just a few words in your approach, can make a huge difference!

[Robert Jordon]

So your in love with a particular girl and you want to know how you can get to know her better. Instead of going right out and asking her on a date, you can simply invite her to study with you at the library or join you for lunch. I have found that by wording things a certain way, my succuss in this area has gone through the roof. for example:

APPROACH #1(The wrong way) "Do you want to come with me to the library?" - This kind of makes you sound despirate and makes it seem as though your afraid of going alone or something. where as the next approach almost always succeeds!

APPROACH #@(The ideal way) "I'm on my way to the library, you welcome to join me." - Here your showing her that you would like her company, but you don't need it! Your showing her that wether she goes with you or not makes no difference to you whatsoever. And this is far favorable an impression to make on her that the first approach.

Try it

Rob,

 

[terminator911]

Thumbs up... That's a good post.

 

[Anti-Dump]

Great advice!

Here's a guy that is using strategy to do BETTER. You gotta have a plan, man.

A small change does get better results. It's TRUE!

Here's me when I was a 'nice guy': "I'd LOVE to take you to dinner next week". Totally true.
And a TOTAL LOSER! How desperate can a guy be? Very!

Now the 'small change' as Robert says: "What's your number?" Her: "You better call me." Me: (just a smile....and a four day wait!). Now I look like I can live without her.

Make those 'small changes' like Robert says. Tonight!

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[TestosteroneBoy]

Its all in the disguise. You make it seem like you are the man, although we all know shaft was the man.

Nice tip, Rob.

 

[Nocturnal]

bump

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[Sun-Tan Superman]

How about making a small change to even your technique

Damn big test coming up, I'm gonna have to go over to the library to study.... actually you know what i'll give yea permission to join me as well, you can keep me entertained if i ever get bored.... a funny girl like your self is always good because a guy can never laugh to much

That time u actually GIVE HER permission to join u....do u see the alpha-ness in that

 

[Pro]

Originally posted by Sun-Tan Superman:

That time u actually GIVE HER permission to join u....do u see the alpha-ness in that

LOLOLOL

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