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This is unrealistic and will result in disappointment. However, if you focus on one thing at a time in the short term, you will see much success.

More importantly, focus on getting a developer job. GPA doesn't always mean dollar bills.

I would give her the benefit of the doubt and ask her out another time. Maintaining the mindset that you are the prize and that women are chasing after you. Then you can maintain that mindset that it's her loss, and you could always ask another girl out (which you can) Or, you can rethink like...

I feel like you're investing too much emotional energy into this despite your affirmation that you are not.

Then you'll get another programming job. Just because you get fired from a job, doesn't mean your career is all over. You have to **** up big time for that to happen.

I second @marmel75. Forget the external stuff for now and focus on skills which are going to make the transition from college easier. That's getting out to developer meetups and making connections and even doing some side hustle developer work if you can get it.

How are you objectively measuring your progress? Just out of curiosity.

zero drinks That's how many you need to be confident. That and constant exposure to approaching complete strangers who are the opposite sex.

You could just ask her out. No sense in overthinking it.

I would focus on one thing for a long period of time. The impression I'm getting is you want all these things in a short period of time. That's so rare of a chance it's borderline not going to happen. However, if you devote yourself to one thing, you'll at least have the satisfication that...

You could always friend zone them.

Love can last a minute or a lifetime. Why fret over if she's going to cheat on you when she has the option to leave you at any time?

Life is a lot better around positive, happy go lucky people. If it were me, I would at least make the effort to approach women I think are positive despite not being in the mood. Because, even though it may not be the case now, the mojo will come back.

Pretty much

Suck it up buttercup There are old bastards in nursing homes laughing at you :mad:

A funny thought pops into your mind worth mentioning. If something funny happened to you during the day or night. If something extraordinary happened to you.

I like to play on @sazc 's reply here. Take note on how her match told a story during the conversation From my experience using online dating, it is much like maintaining a blog where your audience is your potential matches. And your audience is seeking the best match for themselves, however...

I would try to fit in as many meetups as you can possibly fit into your current schedule. The value behind networking is going to serve you much more than what you could learn from three years of computer science. In fact, with you having university experience with computer science, you have...

Also, @marmel75 makes an excellent point: Unless you're building meaningfully projects that people are willing to hand over money to fix their problems, then you really aren't learning anything. And let's not forget it isn't what you know, but who you know which gets you the job. So if there...