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    Path to learning Game

    Whatever your bona fides in game and seduction, what you have just written here is manifestly horsesh1t. You have gone out of your way to dissuade and put down a man 11 years younger than you, who is clearly enthusiastic and motivated about starting out a journey, bettering himself, learning and...
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    I need help/advice on my perspective, recent string of failed first dates

    It seems to me that you have a fairly easily solvable problem. You're getting lots of attractive young women to agree to go on a date with you (and actually show up). So you're already ahead of the vast majority of men. At the beginning of the date, you find the woman physically attractive...
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    Interesting OLD match - any tips?

    I just sent her this. ^ -------------- Edit: sigh. these b1tches man. I'm so blackpilled.
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    Interesting OLD match - any tips?

    ah ok. I did not understand your phrasing initially. But now I think I get it This is good to hear. UPDATE: She text again one hour after the flake with a photo of her tote bag for the picnic and the caption "sad" She text again two hours later saying "please let's do it next week. I was...
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    Interesting OLD match - any tips?

    ok You're going to have to elaborate and explain what you mean by this. Preferably with examples. Otherwise it is an unhelpful comment.
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    Interesting OLD match - any tips?

    3 hours out from the date. ngl lads, bit of a stinger. Went last night and bought picnic blanket & good food for picnic. Even got a fresh new shirt. Was ready to bring my A game. Comms during the week were: Monday night: I replied to her first text off OLD to firm up date. Banter and chat...
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    Interesting OLD match - any tips?

    no fap til saturday gotta let that dog out
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    Interesting OLD match - any tips?

    The date is booked for Saturday. It will be a picnic at the park, playing scrabble and twister. What are some fundamental do's and don'ts on the date so that I can activate her emotionally and ensure the date is a success? What are the biggest mistakes that I need to avoid (e.g. talking about...
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    Interesting OLD match - any tips?

    Well you all brought me to the brink (of nuking this) and back today. Plenty of food for thought. (And, indeed, a diverse range of views on SS.) I'm going to go ahead with the date. Beach date on Saturday afternoon. I'll get a picnic blanket, cooler with snacks, one or simple, fun games. The...
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    Interesting OLD match - any tips?

    Early 20's? Damn bruh. I'm 33. No but random people have guessed 28 (within the last couple of months). No. One of my photos is from 2017. One if from December 2022. And one is from September 2022. And I look the same in all of them, as far as I can tell.
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    Interesting OLD match - any tips?

    Pfff I hope you're right. Hmmm I'm kind of conflicted. I'm pretty sh1t at lying. Then you might ask, well why did you do it in the first place? The answer is to date and hook up with girls casually. But I failed to consider, what if I meet a genuinely attractive woman. (This one might not be...
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    Interesting OLD match - any tips?

    Excellent feedback - thanks gents. The age point made by @pipeman84 & @AureliusMaximus makes sense to me and I cannot argue against it. I'm therefore considering the following: Texting her tonight saying: "I fvcked up. I'm 33, not 28. [I'm going to delete that profile. And if I create a new...
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    Interesting OLD match - any tips?

    Matched on Bumble on Friday. I extended her by 24 hours. She messaged at 2am on Saturday night (partying, drunk and horny?). She is 23 y.o., student, pretty, nerdy, multilingual, mixed nationalities, not overweight. Her message was cute. I replied yesterday (Sunday) evening with some banter...
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    Low T on OLD & text from ex

    Not quite. I'm more trying to sharpen my game. (Increase conversion rate, have better verbal game in text and talk, attract more women etc.) It's not that I want a date at all costs. Which part specifically was weird and what is a better alternative? ? I just wasn't motivated enough to...
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    Low T on OLD & text from ex

    10pm is because that's what time anything starts where I live. It's a ball ache. They usually don't go out until even later. And stay out all night. Not my vibe. Her and I live in separate countries. If I write back saying "ok. book a flight then." I would invite her to come stay with me for...
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    Low T on OLD & text from ex

    I deducted 5 years from my age on OLD (28 instead of 33)... and lo and behold I matched some normal looking women. I tried to implement some advice I've gotten on here recently about how to move things along. One said she liked music in her profile so I opened with: "hello X, it's a pleasure...
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    What's the play? OLD

    This is important, and something that I have struggled with. I was no fap for >1 week when I went on that last bout of dating / trying to date / fvck. I acted thirsty and I blundered some situations with women. It has been 11 days since you wrote your reply, and since then my life has been...
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    What's the play? OLD

    I don't know what that means. I'm not trying to make her think anything you jacka$$. I wrote "I am indifferent", because I was indifferent. And I remain indifferent. Ambivalent is probably far more accurate. Learn to read you sad, angry person. I know I can get very thirsty. I oscillate in...
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    What's the play here? IG cold DM

    ok. I'll follow your advice. I have a fresh Tinder match from today. I'm trying to think of an opener. Her bio is: "Model, photographer. Nice people are welcome. Don't ask me my Instagram, make worth it." (Her typo, not mine.) Any ideas? Edit 1: some more info from her profile: she's...
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    What's the play? OLD

    She messaged my IG after midnight last night. I was already home (had been out with my friend), and I wrote back "how's your night going?" (maybe she'll taxi over to fvck me.... ) She replies a while later (let's say 30 minutes - 1 hour): "Fun! All of my friends cancelled except one and now we...
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