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Interesting thought then... ...When we're gaining traction, we should just go full scorched earth. Unashamedly let our intentions be known (in a smooth way, of course). My thing was always masking that drive for sex, which is beta, right? Could be a game changer for me. I'm often too polite...

You nailed it. Little bit of rust. I'll shake it off.

I'm on a 2.5 month drought. Last weekend I got a OLD with a HB5. We met at a bar. Initial chat was light and smooth. When we approached the bar I ordered first: a non-alcoholic beer (I don't drink). The greaseball barman tries to give me sh1t, but I engage him with lots of light hearted energy...

Interesting take on her r3tarded flu message. How do you figure it's a subliminal message that she's DTF? Maybe I'm too aspy in these spots. ------ As to the overall question, I guess if you're double booking girls, then fine, have at it. But double booking a OLD with a night out with a male...

I described this spot before in another thread but I want to open it up here for ideas. (It's one that will come up again.) I was hanging out alone on a beach; swimming, reading, eating snacks from my cooler etc. HB8 sets up about 15 feet away, lies face down, smoking, headphones on, scrolling...

Hi Murk. Yours are some of the few posts from regulars that I read on here. The philosophy of being candid so that you can learn from feedback is a solid one. I'm going to try and adopt that too. Sounds like a step in the right direction. Good luck out there. Keep us posted. Keep growing and...

Update... Late-2022 was hard; just in survival mode, working Was dating 1 girl during that time. Great experience. Moved country beginning 2023. Ended it with girl. Had to grind hard at work for first 2 months in new country. Life was very unbalanced. But now I'm in a great place. Have...

31/51 Nothing to say. Just fire fighting constantly and trying to swerve burnout. Hope you're all doing well.

30/52 Still out here grinding. Obsessed with work. There's really not a whole lot else going on. I have a cool thing going with one girl who hangs with me on my day off. I have a 2-3 friends who I see in the gym or for dinner every now and then. I have a couple of mentors who are helping to...

29/52 Last week was a big week of work. Attritional, is how I would describe my last week. It was just fvcking hard. Was kept up all night one night having to remove a door frame with my bare hands because it had termites. Messed up my sleep and my rhythm, and therefore my ability to recover...

28/52 If it hasn't already, this is going to quickly become repetitive and boring. Refreshingly so, for me. I'm somewhat conflicted between leaving this thread be for the time being and honoring the commitment to myself to post every week for one year. Even if I feel that I don't have a lot to...

27/52 Same idea this week. It was a remarkably positive week at work. I am determined to continue this type of sprint - with the current structure that my week's have - until the end of the year. When I arrive to that point and I have remained consistent, I will reward myself with a week off...

26/52 Exact same story this week. Blissfully uneventful. Work is savagely consistent. I'm giving it my all at the moment and, again, the compounding nature of the daily efforts is starting to produce some little glimmers. Just trying to best myself each day. I spent one day off with the girl...

25/52 Hello, men. I have precisely nothing to update on this week. Intensity and consistency at work is what is taking most, if not all, of my focus and energy. And I am enjoying that. The feedback that I am receiving for my efforts (in the form of small successes here and there) is...

24/52 It’s steady as she goes in my life this week, so I want to share a couple of cautionary tales about shameful simping I committed last year before resolving to adopt a more red pilled way of life. Brace yourselves. The Beta-Hunting MILF When I moved to my current city last year, it was...

Yes, valid points on wedding game. Although I had a lot of fun at those two weddings during the summer, I was excited to game at them and that ended up being a damp squib. I emphasized the game aspect too much in my mind. ------------- 23/52 Hello men. Another solid week. My efforts to be the...

OP, stop. +1 what Gamisch said. +1 what eyeberollin said. We get it that you caught feelings. Happens to us all sometimes and it sucks and we need to get over it. she wants to "fully focus" on some other dude's pipe in her mouth. mate. read between the lines. and stop degrading yourself with...

22/52 No fap this week. I made a bet with a friend that will last for two months that I can only fap max once per week (the once per week is like a psychological safety net). And I haven't done it. I haven't had a point this week where I've been very tempted to cave in and fap. I also made a...

OP, to reiterate what others have already said, you absolutely need to stop this nonsense. Entertaining this girl in the way you described is extremely corrosive to your masculinity, your confidence and anything else good in your life. So you are going to ignore and block out her and anything...

21/52 I reached a new peak weight this week and a PT friend at the gym asked was I on steroids. I was pretty happy with that. I'm using an app to count calories to make sure I'm hitting a surplus each day. I'm also kind of beginning to notice some cuties at the gym giving me smiles here and...