I'd say performance anxiety. This kind of thing can happen if you are second guessing whether she's really enjoying herself or not.
Does she make lots of noise on top and really get off? Then when you switch she's not as vocal or you can't tell if she's enjoying herself as much...
If she really had high interest in you then she would've done more to make things right after your spat.
She called a couple times wondering what was going on and if she still had you.
The fact that she let it all go with no apology, etc means her IL was low.
You sent her a message with...
"When someone tries to fukk with you, you fire back"
That just lets them know they "got" to you. It shows weakness.
In fact it is happening right now in this thread.
Some people have said things that upset you and you have taken offense to it and "fired" back. You allowed yourself to...
She wants more.
However don't just go over there and do what she asks. Make her work for it. Tease her. I'll give you a foot massage but what's in it for me?
Foot massage = sex
If you play it right.
What is it with guys blowing up on chicks who give them some sh!t? I keep reading these posts where the chick does/says some thing stupid and the guy freaks out.
You are showing big time weakness when you get upset over her BS.
Smile, be polite, and get up and leave.
If she questions...
This is a sad and brutal post for so many reasons.
Please don't take offense I'm trying to help....
1. You spent the last couple months "talking" to her. Sorry dude but you were in the friendzone bigtime. You never had a chance. Any hints she was giving you that something more was going to...
It always bugs me that city dwellers seem to have this attitude that anywhere outside the big city is Hicksville.
I live in currently live in a smaller city that has a good mix of big city and small town feel. It's a world away from Hicksville but I know people from the city who think it...
We are talking about image here right? Masculine and feminine images? In a general sense?
In that case I would say yes pink looks more girly than blue. Long hair is more feminine than short. Steak appears more manly than tofu. A sports car looks more manly than a scooter, etc.
Does that...
Haha, Nice Tazman! I take this :cuss: smiley guy quite seriously though. I will always try to make peace with my peeps. I'm not sure if iqqi was having a bad day or just doesn't trust me enough to play along. Humour, teasing and sarcasm never seem to come over right on the internet...
LOL. Yes I'm sure you can! However you're being a little too defensive to catch some friendly teasing from someone you've known for a long time. What gives?
I figured we've known each other long enough that I could have some fun with ya Iq. You know I'm a sarcastic bugger sometimes but...
Awww c'mon iq! :) :)
You got to let me coach 'em a little bit! How else can we get these guys out of the friendzone? We're trying to break bad habits here and sometimes it takes these kind of rules to do it.
Once the guy breaks his friendzone habit then I think the male-female friendship...
I love to create a pool of women :)
This is a really good post. There are so many guys who don't even realize they are in this position. They can easily flip the script.
The old movie When Harry met Sally has this great quote "men and women can't be friends because the sex part always...
I disagree with the push it more idea.
She scooted away from your ass grab which says she wasn't ready "yet".
She's obviously interested so don't be afraid to let the pot simmer.
I think you did great with your reaction. Tease her a bit, keep things light.
Now that she's contacted...
Damn straight he is! Even more manly with a little blood dripping from his chin too.
When defining masculine and feminine I think primally. I think of wolf packs and barbarians. Males hunt, kill, protect, and provide. This is the natural way.
How is the metro dude supposed to perform...
Since when are young girls not interested in older guys? I've never experienced that.
Then again I would never be caught sucking a$$ trying to impress some young chick by lying about my age.
Women/girls are attracted to confidence
You are either confident or you're not.
If you have to lie...
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