High Voltage
Don Juan
This is my first post in 8 years so be kind.
I went on a "date" with a girl today and need a little help on how to proceed. I'll keep it as short as I can since I'm sure you hate reading long posts as much as I do.
-- My History --
8 years ago (age 21) - virgin, started reading forums
6 years ago (age 23) - first girlfriend, lost virginity, entered 6-year LTR with her
> broke up 3 weeks ago, don't want her back, this post isn't about her
> she was an HB6
> 6 years = 2 years together (same city), 2 long distance, 2 together (moved in)
> she moved away (2 hour plane ride) for school last week
> dumped her because I don't want a long distance relationship (again)
> also dumped her due to personality conflicts
> allowed her to live with me for the 3 weeks before school started
Now (age 29) - trying to start dating again
-- Date History --
- met girl (HB6) in elevator of our apartment
- added her on facebook (I know how to use facebook without being AFC)
- she messages me asking to go for a bicycle ride (we're both hardcore road cyclists)
- 7 days later I just show up at her place and we ride 40 kilometers
> good convo, had her laughing lots
- 7 days later I invite her out to the beach for a swim (via facebook)
> great convo, huge amounts of reciprocal kino, she sees I'm in awesome shape
- 5 days later invite her over for supper (via phone)
> I'm a great cook, made pizza (home-made crust) and cookies
> great convo, a bit of kino (90% from me, 10% from her)
> claims she was still hungover from a party Saturday night (likely true)
Here's how our night ended:
It was 8:30 pm and dark, we went for a walk. Lots of sex talk by both of us, more keno from her (60% from me, 40% from her). I had my arm around her, later she put hers around me. Walking back she says she's cold I start to rub her upper arms (no objection), then her back (no objection). She says shes cold other places so I slide my hand from her back down to her ass. She scutes forward and says "I was not expecting that". That was right before we went back into the apartment building.
I made fun (mimicked) the scute she did. She laughed a bit. Told her she probably wants to go to bed to sleep off the hangover (now its 9:30 pm). She says yes. Told her I'm going to a fall fair on Wednesday and to contact me if she wants to come, told her I'm not going to hound her about it.
MY QUESTION: WTF - why did she freak out like that?
ALSO: Did I handle her reaction well?
-- Next Move --
I don't plan on contacting her again. I'm going to wait until she contacts me. I'm prepared to walk. What would you guys do?
Thanks a bunch folks.
I went on a "date" with a girl today and need a little help on how to proceed. I'll keep it as short as I can since I'm sure you hate reading long posts as much as I do.
-- My History --
8 years ago (age 21) - virgin, started reading forums
6 years ago (age 23) - first girlfriend, lost virginity, entered 6-year LTR with her
> broke up 3 weeks ago, don't want her back, this post isn't about her
> she was an HB6
> 6 years = 2 years together (same city), 2 long distance, 2 together (moved in)
> she moved away (2 hour plane ride) for school last week
> dumped her because I don't want a long distance relationship (again)
> also dumped her due to personality conflicts
> allowed her to live with me for the 3 weeks before school started
Now (age 29) - trying to start dating again
-- Date History --
- met girl (HB6) in elevator of our apartment
- added her on facebook (I know how to use facebook without being AFC)
- she messages me asking to go for a bicycle ride (we're both hardcore road cyclists)
- 7 days later I just show up at her place and we ride 40 kilometers
> good convo, had her laughing lots
- 7 days later I invite her out to the beach for a swim (via facebook)
> great convo, huge amounts of reciprocal kino, she sees I'm in awesome shape
- 5 days later invite her over for supper (via phone)
> I'm a great cook, made pizza (home-made crust) and cookies
> great convo, a bit of kino (90% from me, 10% from her)
> claims she was still hungover from a party Saturday night (likely true)
Here's how our night ended:
It was 8:30 pm and dark, we went for a walk. Lots of sex talk by both of us, more keno from her (60% from me, 40% from her). I had my arm around her, later she put hers around me. Walking back she says she's cold I start to rub her upper arms (no objection), then her back (no objection). She says shes cold other places so I slide my hand from her back down to her ass. She scutes forward and says "I was not expecting that". That was right before we went back into the apartment building.
I made fun (mimicked) the scute she did. She laughed a bit. Told her she probably wants to go to bed to sleep off the hangover (now its 9:30 pm). She says yes. Told her I'm going to a fall fair on Wednesday and to contact me if she wants to come, told her I'm not going to hound her about it.
MY QUESTION: WTF - why did she freak out like that?
ALSO: Did I handle her reaction well?
-- Next Move --
I don't plan on contacting her again. I'm going to wait until she contacts me. I'm prepared to walk. What would you guys do?
Thanks a bunch folks.