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Play it cool. Pull back your effort and let her come to you. . Any chick that gave me "soon" for an answer would immediately have me withdrawing most of my effort and i would focus on other women until she reached out. If she is interested she will notice and she will reach out. Then you know...

Sounds like to me she is She is following "the rules." It was a book released in the 80s i believe, and it taught girls how to play mind games with men to make them fall harder and faster for them. Don't take her behaviour too seriously.

Sounds like other doctors have pumped and dumped her in the past. She put up obstacles to run anti sl*t defense on you because by the sounds of it her insecurity made her believe you would do the same. Whether she was right or wrong she is lucky you had patients. Most guys would have nexted her...

"She has feelings for me but she just wants to be friends." Ever heard that saying "everything before the BUT in a sentence is irreverent and meaningles." The only truth in that sentence was her saying she wants you in the friend zone.

Make other plans. If she takes her time getting back to you, with a flake you reply with no problem i already have plans," and if she gets back to you with a yes but it is way too late and is waiting for better plans, but her plan a falls through, you simply reply "it will have to be next time...

Dodged a bullet there

A pen pal.

Her words were bull$#it. Wanting babies and loving you etc. Never pay any attention to what a chick says. All her blah blah blah went out the window in 2 months. What did her actions tell you? Her actions screamed from the hilltops she is a cheater

I get it. Some of us have that one that got away so to speak but sometimes we can be our own worst enemies by trying "that one more time, just to say hi," It is human for men to want things fixed. We are designers we are builders we are fixers and repairers. It is human to not want things...

This is why you block their social media. You are tempted to look and then when you do it poisons your rational thoughts. This was 5 years ago and you are still hanging on, probably because you can't and won't let yourself 100 % heal. You reach 80 or 90 % then you look at her social media and...

Rude = she blew it. Next.

Here in Canada it is still the norm for the guy to pay but if chicks are insisting on paying or paying half Then let them. At least you aren't being used and taken advantage of.

Here is the link to the post. Hopefully i did this right. Read his post to get the context of my answers. Hope it is of some help . https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/help-with-ex-wife.242810/#post-2463537

I remember giving advice to a user named Roober here on how to deal with the BPD ex. Here is some of what i told him 1. Any issues in the past, just refuse to discuss. Simply answer "that topic is history and i will never discuss that with you again.." stick to that. Stick to your guns. They...

If she is a true BPD you have to cut and ignore everything from her from now on. They are not capable of healthy relationships with people. Period. Not capable. You will have hard days but once you clear your head you will see how toxic she was and you will be glad she is gone. We have all...

By forgetting her and moving on.

They know exactly what they are doing. They are competing with their friends for popularity and validation, and feeding their ego. Nothing feeds their ego more than saying the words to an orbiter " you know we are just friends," but in her head she is thinking 'but keep feeding my ego and...

Naaah. He shouldn't reward her with that. That would be giving her time and attention she doesn't deserve.

Basic self centered, self entitled, selfish female behaviour. They aren't used to guys rejecting them and most women don't handle it well at all because their ego tells them they are supposed to be hurting you. Like you said she wants her ego back. Not you. She wants to put herself back on...

Pull back your texts and your communication. Reel in your attention you were giving her. Be busy. You are killing challenge by telling her you like her. She has to wonder how you feel in order to care. When you destroy challenge her interest will drop. Pull back for a week. Just be busy and...