Try to avoid this mentality. It is putting your ex on a pedestal, where she doesn't belong. This will delay your healing.
These girls may not be what you are looking for but your ex is your ex. She deserves no elevation.
Try this mentality next time. "Met two girls. They were nice. But...
If she does have BPD then she doesn't deserve any of your attention. Even if you aren't interested in getting back with her you shouldn't even want to have a conversation with her. Give her an inch and she will try to take a foot and next thing you know you have a bunny boiler in your life again...
If you are attractive in their eyes and you state you only want to be friends, you have just presented yourself as a challenge. Women love a guy who is a challenge. They love to chase.
Women want what they can't have. They want what you won't give them even more. So if you are stating that you...
You went back and forth way too much. I said this, she replied with that, and such and such, i answered back with such and such to which she said blah blah blah. i know you didnt mean to but you were feeding the drama. Hence her still checking out your social media. She is enjoying the drama...
Treat it as a no. Anytime girls mutter "maybe" that is their way of giving you false hope to keep you orbiting, but not saying yes, because they don't have the guts to say no.
Say "ok. Talk to you in Feburary." Then go date other women and forget all about her.
I see what you are saying but you have to change your mentality from catering to her emotions to being a man who leads.
Ever see those guys who you know are bad news and aholes to the bone and you see the chick they are with and you wonder why on earth she picked him? It is because he knows...
Whether she believes it or not isn't something you can't control. Standing your ground and walking is what you can control. If you lead, and act like a man, and refuse to reward bad behaviour she will know you are a guy she can admire.
When a woman knows your boundaries and knows you are the...
Classic case of an attention ***** jacking you around and using you for entertainment.
Classic case of her having low interest in you.
Classic case of us saying over and over and over, never pay attention to anything she says. Pay attention to her actions. Her words will lie. Her actions...
Just reply with "hope you are feeling better." Nothing else. Then go silent until she reaches out. If she doesn't you didn't waste any time on a drama queen. If she does then she is interested, and let her chase you.
In the mean time go date other women. By the time she reaches out you should...
Easiest way to spin this is to date other women. Let her know and see you have other options. If she feels she is the only one you are seeing the she will feel you like her more than she likes you. Even if this isnt the case.
I had a chick totally misread a situarion with me pull this before...
Women have long ago stopped giving men something to date. When feminine submissive women return, when femenatzi behaviour is extinguished when more favorable laws for men return, then men can return to dating. Basically when women become datable again, men will date them. Until then the plate...
Sadly this girl is actually being honest. She wants your money and will pretend to be your girlfriend. Most chick try to separate you from your money with deception.
You can only be in the friend zone if you allow yourself to stay there.
A chick can pull the LJBF on you all she wants. You only get put in the friendzone if you accept it.
Remember guys you can say "that doesn't work for me," and cut ties and go date other women.
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