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Whoa Dont rush to judgement just yet! You didn't go for the kiss close on the first date, and she voluntarily kissed you on the cheek. That doesn't sound like a "death-knel" sceanrio to me. On the second date, when you feel the time is right, go for a kiss close my friend.

That naive and will not happen. People will always watch TV and agendas will always be pushed. Just as many men watch TV as women. Simply tuning out is good for an individual, but won't stop anything. The reason why people should be concerned (not paranoid, bitter or whiney) about the...

I am slightly suspicious about a girl who claims to be a virgin and marriage minded, but takes you to her apartment on the first date to make out for ten minutes. The words and actions don't seem to match. I would be skeptical of this girl. Next time you are with her, try to go down on her...

Even in the sitcoms. Hetero men are protrayed as fumbling bumblin idiots that cannot possibly take care of themselves. They eat food out of a can, wear the same shirt every day, the apartment is a dump, etc. etc. All the women in the shows start telling the guy what to do like she is his...

Hello all, just one more contraversial rant I have to get off my chest before I go to bed. Just for a disclaimer, I am white, of Italian and Lebanese descent. My father is from Europe. When I was brought up, I was taught by my dad to be tough, but to also have class; dress well, don't...

Who cares! So many in the mass media bring up stupid questions like that: Whats en vogue now? The Sensitive Guy or The Macho Man? Then they interview women on the street, and of course you get varying answers and the whole thing is completly useless. If anything, it just confuses the F...

Dude...is there something you're leaving out? They were acting suspicious about you. You must have been playing around or dating somebody else, or else their radars wouldn't be going off. Two girls being suspicious can't just be written off as two crazy girls looking for a good guy to get...

Oh, and by the way, its not like its already tough enough with women being all over the place with morals down the tubes. I mean, your girl could get it on with some other sleazy guy. But now, its like you also have to be worried that some dike is trying to get into your woman's pants too...

I am old-fashioned when it comes to a girl I consider LTR material. But if I am with a girl for a fling or something, if she told me she experiemented with another woman, I wouldn't care much. If she wanted a 3-some with me and another girl; that would be fine with me. HOWEVER, I have heard...

Relax dude, Have you heard anything adverse about her reputation or something? Because if you haven't, I see no need for you to be concerned. Just relax, take it one date at a time, and just look at the bottom line. Unless the girl is super rich and wants to string along guys like...

Enjoy this site alot. I also think we need a DJ Forum for DJ's of 25yo or older so we can work out the very different games and landscapes we can deal with at this age. I am NOT saying the older DJ's should be segregated from the younger ones. But I think a forum for exchanging tips and...

Don't know all the details but I think everything is going fine. You're overanalyzing. Why would you think she is playing games? She is buying you gifts and paying for dinners. Chill out and enjoy it. Somehow, you're being a challenge because you're not all over her like the other guys...

I agree with you guys regarding sex. Its really not that big of a deal. Usually when I tell people this, they look at me like I have two heads. Its sort of the same rush you get when you are on a rollercoaster ride. Also, in the teens and early 20's the testosterone is on full throttle too...

My Rules Actually now that I think about it my rules regarding this are simple: If I get a woman to spread her legs for me before exclusivity in some sort of relationship context...then I put her in the fling/STR category....hasta la vista to the LTR. One-night stands? Forget it. She is...

A little over a year ago, I ended a 2 year LTR, and getting back into the dating game is difficult because you're rusty. Especially if one isn't aware of the ways of the DJ; like me. I was great at playing relationship games; mind games, getting control and stuff, but the weakest point...

Is it possible that at LEAST 80 to 90 percent of all guys are either AFC or Coward Jerks in the dating jungle? When I go to a party and watch people interact, its unbelievable, maybe...just maybe one or two guys is actually having a decent interaction with women. The rest are either scared...

Don Juannabe: I can relate a similar experience with allowing people getting into my head. I was DJ'ing (or am; not sure) a nice HB9 I was setup with who was just giving me weekday dates; wanted to take it slow. She is working two jobs, is 26yo, is super marriage-minded, she is paying for a...

I am also in a transition, in-training DJ, but I would say that you should take all those AFC's freaking out as a positive sing; a compliment to your game. They feel weak because you are doing very little while the others are going out of their way to supplicate to these girls. It truly is...

I agree with squirrels on this one. You have nothing to lose by calling her again. I don't think calling after 2 weeks to try again is clingy at all. Panicking like an AFC and calling everyday is clingy. I would say when u call her though, only try to catch her on the phone, don't leave...

I agree with squirrels on this one. You have nothing to lose by calling her again. I don't think calling after 2 weeks to try again is clingy at all. Panicking like an AFC and calling everyday is clingy.