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    Sexting games. What's going on here?

    Potential BPD......run.
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    Does she want reassurance? She wants to travel abroad.

    She ended up sleeping on a bed with another guy? not cool man whether it's real or not. I think the red flag is there. Whether you choose to ignore it or not is up to you.
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    Asking about ex-bf's

    99% of the time, when there is still an issue, the girls will volunteer this info early on. You ran into the other 1%. I swear finding a girl who doesn't talk about their ex and still has attachment issues is like finding a girl who doesn't like to gossip. It's VERY unlikely.
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    Any idea how to make a girl introduce her friend to you?

    The best type of girl is the bubbly HB7 socialite who is liked by everyone and I mean EVERYONE (guys girls older men older women younger men younger women). These girls have like 1000+ friends on FB get like 50+ likes for every update they post (not the AW so don't mistake what I write). If...
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    Male 8s

    Excellent point backbreaker. I want to add one thing and it's that there is a baseline score if you can do all this. If you can get girls to constantly approach you or if you have several girls in your plate rotation, you have to be at least a 7 overall. That's assuming that you don't get hit...
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    Any idea how to make a girl introduce her friend to you?

    No offense Bradd, but after reading your long thread of how you gotta spend $300+ on a meal for an HB9 I'm quite appalled to see what you wrote on this post.
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    Let the girl miss you- how to do it ?

    Don't be too passive. Sometimes you gotta be super aggressive to break down all the bs walls that she has set up. If you feel there is a hint of interest there is hope. Question is whether or not you are interested in going through all that. In my opinion, the best thing to do in that...
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    Any idea how to make a girl introduce her friend to you?

    Make sure you set the frame for the friendzone. Don't make her the one initiating it. If she has tons and I mean tons of contacts then it may be worth your while to treat her like the "gentleman" everyone despises of on sosuave. Open the doors, never talk trash, sometimes listen to her...
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    Let the girl miss you- how to do it ?

    Send a blank text sometime between now and the time you meet. Don't ever reply. Girl will go crazy. Good tactic I use.
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    Survey says 96% of men who try online dating will fail

    I can't agree with what you say more. Had a fatty at work who at best was a 3. She averaged about 5 new hits a day and a cutsy Asian 7 averaged 30 messages a day. I was quite curious about POF and my coworkers later showed me the text/chat messages that were coming through. TilltheEnd is not...
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    Your Response to "Buy Me A Drink"

    I can't remember if i posted on this one, but i'd get her water and say that u didn't think she was 21+. If she passes my sh*t test afterwards then I get her OJ or milk and tell her that you still don't believe she's over 21. Works like a charm.
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    Knowing a good woman when you have her

    IAMIAFC. Being Asian, I have more trouble with the issue you talk about than most people from other races. We are conditioned from the getgo (through our parents, television, peers, etc) that you want the humble, nice, caring, housewifey material. Obviously though that's not how our...
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    A Woman's First Time

    sosuave666. Totally true what you said. Woman's first orgasm with someone can be more special than her first time. NO doubt about this.
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    Quick question - Overdressing?

    Unbutton the top two buttons of your shirt, loosen your tie and let it hang. Then portray yourself with body language that is super chill and relaxed. Showing contrasting characteristics like this that is atypical of guys dressing in suits will make many 'ginas tingle. You don't need to...
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    late 20s, feeling weird talking to 18-24 or so

    What Slickster said is key. They will always sh*t test you with age and what you gotta do is reverse the frame by saying they are too young. Don't hesitate...it's gotta pop out of your mouth really fast and naturally and suddenly you'll find them qualifying that they are at an appropriate age...
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    Dating in early 40's

    Dood. If your skin looks like that in your pic I see absolutely no reason as to why you won't consistently pull in the 20s. Why are you even considering someone your age??????
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    Sometimes its really annoying being with an introvert

    Heya Thunder. I can understand your frustrations with a passive aggressive/non-confrontational introvert. I ran into an extreme introvert who was totally non-confrontational. Six months into the relationship, the roof collapsed over my head when she spilled out every single problem that she...
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    you know its bad when they admit it.

    Typical, I wonder whether or not the previous generation thought the same way about us. But from what I'm seeing, I agree with you in that there are some serious entitlement issues with the younger generation (as well as ADD-texting every 5 secs, checking phone every 5 secs, checking ipad...
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    Grad School Challenges...advice?

    Yelp and meetup. Those two sites are the 2nd gen match.com and dating sites.
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    What to do about bad reputation/ people trash talking you?

    Ah...a familiar scenario as this happens in a lot of smaller groups (minority ethnic groups). And this is an area that I commonly encounter in the Asian community. These are the things you need to do: 1) if questioned, act and talk in a manner with all people that makes it appear you are...
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