Grad School Challenges...advice?

[ceiliak]

Hey guys,

I had already posted this here recently, but it was moved to regular discussion due to my age not being displayed in my profile. As I have rectified that situation by showing my correct age, 30, I am re-posting so that I can gain some insight from the mature men crowd.


I used to be on this board more back in 2002-2004. Since then I have had a pretty damn good track record with women from things I learned here and in life. I have slept with over 60 women, from different cities, countries and backgrounds....great success...and I owe a lot of it to the early inspiration and insight gained from sosuave.com I even lived in South America for a few years and was able to really live a good lifestyle, amazing latina women, etc.
Now I'm back in the states and in a rigorous, reputable MBA program...but it makes it pretty challenging to get laid with the kinds of girls I normally like. With the time and academic demands of school, the awful 70% to 30% male/female ratio at school (good portion of them foreign), to the too "type A" for my liking type of chicks you see at business school, I'm getting frustrated.

Also, my graduate program is stand-alone, so it is not linked with an undergraduate institution, so the average age on campus is about 28, lots of the girls are married, engaged, long term boyfriends, etc.

I just wanted to see if anyone out there has had similar experience in graduate school. I work out 6 days a week, normally can get good female attention via my looks, I can work good game once I meet a chick, have a good amount of social proof, but it just seems as though a lot of girls here on campus don't want to give it up, perhaps b/c its such a small community. In other words, if they slut it up, they fear it will affect their "image" and potential for networking, jobs, etc.

What new approaches can I take, given that my time is virtually non existant aside from the demands of school, working out, etc? Even my weekends can get gobbled up due to exams (yes, exams on weekends) group presentations, group projects, interviews, etc.

Thanks for listening, gentlemen...would value some input from other DJs out there that can relate.

Mike

 

[ceiliak]

Update

Well,

A girl took me home from the campus pub last night, so perhaps I'm back on track.

Bonus: She told me she thought I was sleeping with/hooking up with at least 3 other girls that she knew of (I'm not, I just have a lot of social proof maybe?) ...so that is good. ALways a good image to project.

Women will always prefer to share a man that is desirable and in demand, over having 100% access to a guy that isn't. I've seen it play out time and time again.

Anyway, just wanted to give an update.

 

[ceiliak]

uhh

Fellas?

Does anyone read/post in Mature Man anymore?

Bueller?

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Ceiliac,
Yes we do read,but there is no magic bullet...Not all situations are amenable to solution,yours is intractable you are crying in the wilderness...As a Young Man,I worked on a US mine in the Desert North of Alice Springs....The only women we ever saw came once a week in a VW combi wagon at twenty pounds a throw..We just read books some gambled...not even any grog other than two large tins of Lager (Opened) with your Tea... the only real solution to your problem is to look outside the campus...I was in the Northern Territory to coin brass,you are where you are to study...Ideal environment for our main game Ceiliac....why not tell us more of your Dalliance in Southern Realms?

 

[jhl]

Yelp and meetup. Those two sites are the 2nd gen match.com and dating sites.

 

[sodbuster]

It may be a time in your life when other things are more important than women. We all have them,just put your head down and go{let the chicks fall where they may}. I mean, what is really more important women or a higher level of income for the rest of your life{which will attract all kinds of women}

 

[squirrels]

Bonus: She told me she thought I was sleeping with/hooking up with at least 3 other girls that she knew of (I'm not, I just have a lot of social proof maybe?) ...so that is good. ALways a good image to project.

This is interesting. What kind of relationship DO you have with those 3 other girls??

 

[DMEDFISIK]

Eerily similar to me. I am in a top-ranked PhD program. It's also stand-alone as the undergraduate institution is 15 to 20 mins away. However school demands haven't affected my game much.

And why would you even want to game chicks at your institution if the numbers are small? I tried to do it when I started graduate school a few years ago and I quickly realized it would be much better if I looked for girls outside. I was almost involved with a girl here at my institute, and I'm glad I pulled out of it. I don't think I would want a girl stopping by my office everyday or so trying to hang out. I like some space. In addition you avoid a lot of drama that come with gaming multiple chicks in the same location with limited total numbers--people talk.

Now contrary to the above, I had a fling with a girl, but she was in a different program/institute, and it was a casual downlow affair. She was almost graduating from nursing school. However, I wouldn't make a habit of this and it's important to use good judgment if you must get involved with a girl in your academic vicinity. But this is my perspective, others may feel different.

I am dealing with 4 girls now (met one at a club, another at a social gathering, others at house parties) and I see them once every week or two, and talk twice or so a week. I also find time to lift and do cardio 4 to 5 days a week, play my piano and study. Yes, I don't sleep much except maybe on weekends but I am having fun with life. I am almost always on the go. In school I am multitasking to save time. And there are periods I just can't see anybody due to academic demands and everyone understands. With time management and prioritizing you'll be fine.

Just talk to girls outside of campus. Go out with a buddy and check out the town when you can.