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    Long term gf going abroad: Worried about her cheating on me

    Rofl. Funny and well said.
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    Could really use support, stuck in a huge rut.

    Your post count really doesn't have to do with where you're at. Don't put yourself down. You're halfway there. I think that your open-mindedness to the situation and input of others are positive signs for improvement. Good luck and I hope you can find a wingman!
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    If you aren't going forward, you are giong backwards

    Arguing against a point Iqqi is making that makes absolutely no sense to me. Take it however you feel and continue to post your valuable time away.
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    Could really use support, stuck in a huge rut.

    I'll be brutally honest. You've been working at it for 4-5 years and aren't progressing. You should be well past the point where you are making progress by now. The underlying problem to all of this is that you don't see what you're doing wrong. What you need to do is to find an...
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    If you aren't going forward, you are giong backwards

    I see your point, but all this doesn't apply to the woman in the original post. If you're trying to defend that girl based on what you just wrote, I find it highly amusing that you are categorizing the man as a loser for not being ambitious, while giving every benefit of the doubt and a...
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    If you aren't going forward, you are giong backwards

    Ah let me clarify what I wrote. The point is that a "gorgeous secretary" with a lot of ambition and some brains could advance like a skyrocket in the right jobs in the corporate world. There is a reason why she is there as a secretary.
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    If you aren't going forward, you are giong backwards

    I completely missed this important factor that Zekko brought up. The woman is a receptionist. In the hierarchy of jobs for woman, that pretty much ranks at the bottom of a scale for someone who is moderately attractive. Moderately attractive women can get so many perks in going through...
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    Introversion and pickup

    I agree with you GQ Scott..the thing is...how successful are you without having the super positive energy all around you to sway the crowds? Iono...in pick up you hear positive energy, positive vibe, excitement....and with highly introverted people I can't imagine them being associated with...
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    Introversion and pickup

    I just saw a thread somewhere on this forum about the Myers Briggs Test and to my surprise, about 70%+ of you guys here seem to be introverts. I started this thread to find out how you introverts overcame your ways to cold approach (for those who can do it). On the Myers Briggs test, I...
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    Two Schools

    And.....as we've seen recently... For consequences: 1) It's always your fault 2) It's always the girl's fault.
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    If you aren't going forward, you are giong backwards

    We do not have the full details regarding the guy's situation and you certainly have a legit point based on the evidence that you saw. Each to his own when drawing his conclusions based on the lack of full evidence. However, I draw a different conclusion b/c of the way we perceive what is...
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    If you aren't going forward, you are giong backwards

    I don't have time to go through every post on this thread, but you make an excellent point which caught my eye as well. I did a quick search on glassdoor.com and found that a manager at a Ruby Tuesday's makes an average of 62k a year (with an average range of 45kish to 80k a year)...
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    Why do girls find artist musician types short term desirable

    One of the reasons I think is b/c they think, act, and look differently from the standard crowd. In terms of novelty, It's the same concept when you see something novel on TV. Regardless of what it is if you see something you rarely see or never saw before, many times you'll start paying...
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    would you go on a dinner date for a 1st date if the girl suggest it?

    You can easily turn the tables back on her by saying that you only have a narrow time slot this week which would only allow for coffee, but would have enough time for dinner the following week. This way you can eval whether or not she's worth your time for another meet on your terms. If she...
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    If you aren't going forward, you are giong backwards

    Findog, I understand where you are coming from but I think these posts reflect something that is a tad bit different from what you are describing. It's more of a rule of the "absolute" rather than the "relative". BB and others are not condoning women's megahypergamous behavior of trading up...
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    dating a workaholic chick...

    That schedule is not by "choice." That is if she doesn't want to get kicked out and get her degree she'll have to study 24-7 so I'm not sure if you can call her a workaholic. It seems quite obvious to me that you aren't as busy. You'll have to deal with this ....probably forever. This is...
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    Top 12 Mens Wardrobe Apparel Items

    I always get into these neverending arguments with Americans from small cities so I'm gonna stop it right here....I don't have time. Let's just say just b/c you've never seen these things and it's a bit fashion forward doesn't make it girly or gay. Just take a look at this pic...
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    Top 12 Mens Wardrobe Apparel Items

    A >$500 blazer from Ralph Lauren/Polo/Brooks Brothers/Joseph Banks fits the same bill. I have NEVER seen a man wear a blazer with sneakers. Texas....explains it. Texas....explains it. Yup we are from vastly different markets my friend. Whatever works for you in Texas.
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    she says boobs for drinks

    Why so serious? Just play along and whatever happens happens. Act like ur surprised and say that you don't think their breasts cost that much. That should have start some funny exchanges for a few minutes at the least.
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    Long Distance?

    I find this quite humorous and it has an element of truth to it. I'm in a LDR (250 miles away) and I see my girl every week (rotate going back and forth every week). I can handle giving up on the nights out, the money, and perhaps my sanity, but time is the biggest issue.... Unless you are...
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