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I have been recently seeing a girl who has been going through a painful break up and I became her monkey branch. This experience gave me a personal perspective into how girls move on and how monkey branching works for them. The monkey branching really helped her numb her break up. There is no...

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I am currently facing the same issue as well. I can secure the lay quite fast but usually after 1 or 2 lays, they eventually vanish. This raises an interesting point. I personally don't believe in leading the plates that I am not eyeing for a LTR with on; so I try to keep things casual. In...

I agree. I was offended by it but perhaps I shouldn't be. It just felt off to me that he never spoke to me about it. But again my expectations could have been misplaced in how others behave. Something I cannot control. Wise words @Barrister yes, you're right. Plates are plates. I need to...

Thanks bros for all your responses. They are all very on point. After reading your thoughts and reflecting on my own, I've come to realize that: 1) I was pissed that this "new friend" pursued my old plate without asking me about it. He knew that the plate and I had something. Yes, we are not...

This year I was introduced to a new friend through a buddy of mine. This new friend often goes out with us with this sexy plate (that he is not exclusive with) but every time we've been out together, that plate has been giving me clear IOIs and showing IL. She even interacts with me on social...

I agree @Glassguy is always on point. His advice on SS has helped me a lot.

This is really great advice. Thank you. About 2 months ago then she left to do some baking course in Paris.

This maybe the case. But how do we convert these girls into tangible lays? For example, I have another girl who was a former fwb of mine. She was tired of riding the **** carousel, so decided to go celibate for a year. Recently she came back into orbit. Keeps telling me she wants to **** me...

Nah we already had sex on previous occasions. Dinner was just the precursor to smashing. Also there's a new restaurant I wanted to check out. Wanted to invite her along. Really like your advice here man.

Why initiate and tell me she misses me? Also why shoot me a vague counter offer. Only to then go silent!

A girl I slept with messages me out of the blue a few days ago to tell me she was thinking about me. (I see this as high IL from her part). Saw it as an opportunity to set up a meet with her. I invited her out to dinner this weekend: "Let's stop missing each other & have dinner this Saturday."...

Well said!

Potentially. Who knows! I enjoyed it. Maybe she didn't. I've experienced something like this recently, even started a thread about it. A while back with another plate, who was basically a 9, I just could not get hard during our first hook up. I felt like **** because she tried so hard but we...

Sorry to revive my own thread but I thought I'd post an update here to educate my future self and others that might be in this predicament and are tempted to re-engage with a flake. I did end up attempting to re-engage with this flake after almost a month. I messaged her over the weekend. At...

Thought I'd just pop in here again as I've been experimenting on building a strategy to straight for "lay" date (with my newer/wavering plates) since my last reply to this read. Recent 2 successes. Plate 1 A relatively new plate I had been seeing. We've had sex a few times but things are...

Hi DJs, I've been thinking about this lately: It's been often said that women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of relationship. Generally from the standpoint of pure intentions, women seek relationship from men and men seek sex from women. Of course there are exceptions...

She isn't fat. She's a part time model, which may explain why she can monkey branch me so quick. She might have many space monkeys eagerly waiting for their turn after me. This is also why I am more affected than I should be (or more thirsty); just sucks to have a (physically) nice one slip...

I tried this strategy on Friday. Asked a girl out to a ****tail lounge and then hours before the date I told her that some plans came up so I'll have to hangout with her later that night. I told her we could hang at her place instead (we usually **** at her place). She politely rejected me...

This was what I needed to hear. Thank you!! And also thanks to everybody for bringing clarity.