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I see the general consensus here seems to be. Spin plates & move on which I totally get (flake = low or no IL = therefore next) but do you guys think by adhering to this hard fast rule we sometime miss out by not being more proactive?

Hi fellow DJs! Recently I met a cute girl during a spur of the moment day approach. This has been one of my few successful cold approaches ever. Since the number exchange, we've gone out several times and had sex. Things were looking bright. We were meeting almost on a weekly basis. I...

And what disorder would that be?

Coming to almost 2 months. I did exactly what you said. Since our incident and her "ghosting" me, I've actually been meeting and ****ing other girls. Doing this allowed me to become so detached to the point that I don't even feel ashamed to consider reaching out to her. My thought process was...

Sorry for reviving my dead thread but I thought I'd give an update here (perhaps, a lesson to myself in the future and to others that may find themselves in the same predicament). Enough time had passed, so I thought I'd hit the girl up over the weekend on our unblocked messenger to see whether...

I've always explored that idea but I've also wondered whether it will become an impediment in the long run. Like you become dependent on it and can't get hard without. Gold advice. But in terms of 10-15% body fat, I am assuming there is a level of bulk required too right? For example, bulking...

Could you elaborate on this? You raise a similar point to the reply above m. Why does elite physique matter more and is there a particular benchmark to what elite physique is? (Like a certain bf %) or is it subjective?

On another note, something I would like to ask the 'no-fappers' here on SS. How does no-fap affect performance anxiety? Does anyone have experience?

Thank you! Yes I think I was! So we went for a quick dinner after hooking up and she admitted that she initially thought I was not interested in her and she was quite disappointed that I couldn't pull through in bed. I guess I should consider myself lucky that the IL meant a second chance to set...

First of all. Thank you everyone that replied and offered your thoughts. Update: ended up smashing the girl recently! Her IL was probably quite high as she agreed to meet me again. I think it was really just nerves. I just tried my best to focus, be in the moment and really enjoy it and...

Hello DJs. Found myself in a novel and surprising situation recently.. Met a 9. Super sexy. Amazing to spend time with. High IL from her! Also very freaky girl because of some kinky heavy make out sesh on all our previous dates. Recently on our 3rd date, we ended up at my place after a night...

That's very good advice. Thank you! I know you mentioned it was beyond the scope of your reply, but can you share some insights on how you personally "weave your web for them emotionally and physically"? Curious to know.

Hi DJs. Maybe a weird question to some but I need to ask: I read from some threads that some of you have made sex videos with your girls (and ex girls). I've actually never filmed a sex video with any of my lays. I'd love to record some of the amazing sex seshes I've had the privilege to...

To be honest I cancel all the time. My strategy has always been to set up dates with multiple girls in my orbit on a particular night that I feel like having fun because sometimes some of these girls might take ages to reply and others might not be able to make it for their own reasons. But...

I find it very interesting that a lot in the manosphere and RP community preach the importance of plating with many suggesting its good to have several plates at once (some suggesting spinning at least 3 is the magic number) but realistically the logistics and time sink that active plating...

Hello fellow DJs. Recently I have been thinking a lot about the actual logistics of plating (existing girls) and dating new girls. It's all really time consuming to be honest. I read on SS that some DJs say they have a rotation of 3 plates they see actively. Some even have 6 or more. Others...

You got this spot on. I think that is the source of the shame or regret that I feel now. Anyway I thought this was a funny little personal anecdote for our brothers on this thread who might be in this predicament.

Thought I'd check in with an update as well as a brief FR and some thoughts. I finally hooked up with that 6 with the 10 body that I was talking about in my last reply. Hesitated about pulling the trigger for a long time but went ahead because I was horny. This girl was super sexual. A super...

My own take on this as someone who has been actively on OLD for years is that she wants to: 1) assess your SMV based on your social media. 2) she wants to know you're not a catfish and a real person. I honestly think it's hard to do well on OLD nowadays without social media, especially if...

Funny you brought this up. I've been thinking about this conundrum recently as well. Personally I aim for 8s and above. Generally, I've ****ed some 7s too just because they had the right vibes. And 7s are not bad. But this year, I've encountered (and ****ed) a few 6s that have confused me...