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    List of things that are more important than getting laid

    I agree with you to an extent. However I think a true man can find the balance between taking care of his business and also pursuing sex. As long as that pursuit doesn't make him sacrifice his goals, respect, etc.
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    How are you dealing with "are you vaccinated?" questions?

    Covid is never going away and it's something we will have to live with for quite some time. The hysteria surrounding covid and vaccinations needs to calm down. If you choose to be vaccinated, that's cool. If not, that's cool too. It's a personal choice. What I don't like is the portrayal of...
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    List of things that are more important than getting laid

    I would add living the life that you want on your terms is important as well. Never compromising on what you want to achieve in life for anyone.
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    Question for very attractive dudes

    Probably did that because she doesn't find him attractive even though he's 6''8". If she was attracted to him, she wouldn't have complained.
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    WTF is going on with the world and this non-binary crap??

    Everyone has childhood trauma to some degree. How it's dealt with is key. I'm no expert, but from my experience, these people would rather fall back onto some cope rather than truly work out their issues. You're correct in saying them will treat you like a Nazi if the topic is brought up. Or...
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    WTF is going on with the world and this non-binary crap??

    My ex has a sister who is non-binary. Prefers to be referred to with non-gender specific pronouns. The family history is one of mental disease. Their mother was schizo and abused them terribly as children. I can't say that this occurs with every person who is non-binary, but I'd say history of...
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    relative hooking me up in a different state... tips?

    Long distance is not worth it. I'd advise against moving just for her as well. While she may check a lot of your boxes and seem highly interested, eventually the long distance will wear the relationship down unless you do move. If you move to her, you always have the inevitability of the...
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    Gray hair: keep or dye?

    I'm bald and keep my head shaved smooth. However, I do have some grey hair in my beard at certain spots and just rock it as is. I'm 35. If women can't handle a little grey in my beard then oh well.
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    Dating Lessons you've learnt the HARD way?

    Long distance for sure. Was seeing a girl 90 minutes away from me. Logistics were terrible.
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    Bye bye gains :'(

    Listen to your body and let it rest. You won't lose your gains that quick. It's beneficial to take some time off from lifting every now and then. In your case, it's unplanned, but look at the positive side of it. You can catch up on sleep and rest. Stay hydrated and eat lightly until your...
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    Banning Pan

    Getting laid is getting laid. Sure she might have a few extra pounds and some love handles, but it's better than rubbing one out. I can't do a seriously fat woman, but a curvy one is not out of my realm of possibilities. If she has a cute face and decent personality, I can overlook her not...
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    Beer Goggles: The New Normal

    Getting laid is getting laid. As long as she's not a fatty, decently attractive (to me) and is DTF, I'll do it. If you're happy banging whoever it is you're banging, that's all that matters. Why all the fuss over what other guys are banging? Isn't the whole point of this forum is to be better...
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    Stop fixating on targets and outcomes. Instead fixate on PROCESS

    You're post reminds me of this video by Jocko and how he talks about collecting data points on a woman you're interested in. The way he talks about it makes it very simple to understand.
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    GF says she has doubts

    I'd consider the relationship over if she's saying stuff like that. Maybe you did something wrong or maybe you didn't. From my experience, the relationship won't be the same no matter how you respond. If you're honest, you make yourself vulnerable and she knows you care too much. If you S&D...
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    Concealed carry on first few dates

    The state I live in, it's a toss up on whether a girl would be ok with me carrying on a date. I wouldn't announce it to her, though. I'll say if a girl can't handle the fact I carry, it won't work out in the long run. If you present yourself as a normal guy to her and she is attracted to you...
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    Does Anyone Else Hate Eating a Girl Out?

    If it's clean and my face is already near it, it's getting eaten. I also like to slip a finger in there to really rock her world if she's down for that. Honestly, you can dominate a woman by eating her out really well. If you're good enough to give her a powerful orgasm it will make her...
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    Ethics of what I'm about to do.

    Chateau heartiste. Get his book off Amazon before they delist it
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    How do i confess my love to an 18yr old.

    You do what you feel is right. Most likely what you feel is right is not going to work out as you intend. While she may be a great catch for you, she may not see you the same way.
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    Lover/Provider Dichotomy is Over: Three Tier System Now

    I'll add that a lot of people don't won't to or can't do the deep work required to get better at whatever is holding them back. I know I'm lacking in certain areas. One of the reasons why I'm here. Learn from others who have made the same mistakes, endured and overcome their struggles, and be...
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    Abandonment Issues? Anybody here can relate to this?

    Women with a past like that do not make suitable LTRs. They will siphon all your energy with their traumas. Bonus round is when you get in an argument and say something they don't like, they say you triggered their traumas, even when you had no intention of doing that. Permanent victim mindset.
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