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Agreed. You can live comfortably and normal and still save money. Besides, you can get hit by a truck tomorrow and guess what? That money isn't following you to the afterlife.

Considering how much it costs to attend a wedding (even if you're not in the wedding party) is it worth spending that money for a chance at the hot bridesmaids and they're hot friends? Think suit and or tuxedo, hotel room (you know you'll be drinking), envelope (have to cover your plate at...

You can set boundaries and she'll most likely cross them because she wants to test you or doesn't see you as her best option. At that point, you have to tell her you aren't going to tolerate her behavior and you have to walk away.

The wedding industry is one of the biggest money grabs. All that money spent for a few hours of pomp and circumstance. If you really wanted to get married, have a justice of the peace do it with only a few close family/friends attending. Save the money for the eventual divorce.

Fighting for a relationship is pointless. If it has to come to that, it won't last long beyond that. Sure you can have your issues and work through them in a healthy way. She disrespected me twice in a short time and told me she would leave me over dumb ****. So I called her bluff and ended it...

I'd do it in a public place with other people around if you're giving her stuff back. I did this and we didn't say one word to each other. She texted me afterwards how she expected me to chase after her and fight for the relationship. The rest of her stuff I forgot to bring with me, I threw...

I would have just thrown the stuff out. That's what I did. She didn't leave much behind but I wasn't spending money on her to mail it to her.

A lot of the people I knew who got married in their mid to late 20s are divorced already. I was very close to proposing to an ex once, but played it smart and suggested we should move in together. (Yes I was BP at the time) About a week later, she made a few comments alluding to how I wasn't a...

Definitely wouldn't do it for comfort. What I've learned since we ended things, is I can't seek a woman for comfort. Now if she wants to smash ok

I'd like to believe that is the case with my ex but I highly doubt it.

I'd feel sorry for whoever my ex is having a great time with. I'll be honest in that I have the desire to reach out to my ex lately. Mainly because I want to show off how different I am since we last saw each other. I know she wouldn't give two ****s, but I guess part of my ego wants to show...

This. HR is not interested in your well being or even the well being of the people who bring them complaints. They are simply an ACO (azz covering organization) for the company you work for. They exist to protect the company from any and all potential lawsuits or bad stuff.

OP, she doesn't look that bad. I'd hit it. You got laid so you took care of your needs. If you feel that bad about it, just don't talk to her ever again.

I do 3 days of total body strength training and sandwich it with 2 days of 30 minute cardio sessions (gym bike) with ab work on the cardio days. I find it helps my endurance and keeps the calorie burn consistent throughout my week. I also work in restaurants so I'm doing 10k+ steps a day so...

Absolutely. Lesson learned.

Thanks pan. She never wanted to get married or have children. She was damaged goods. Lot of mental issues and was on head meds. Tried killing herself when she was younger. I dodged a massive bullet

Spin it however you want. The fact cardiac issues exist with this vaccine is enough of a deterrent for me to never take it. The vaccine was also marketed as ensuring our lives would return to normal, yet that hasn't happened yet either. There's still mask mandates, vaccine mandates have been...

I got unplugged after my last trainwreck of a relationship that occurred earlier this year. The relationship had all sorts of red flags and me being the happy little BP drone, I ignored them and professed my love for the girl. My only saving grace was my buddy who went through something...

She's throwing a tantrum and looking for a reaction out of you, either positive or negative. She's doing this to assess your commitment to her and her feelings. Don't go full beta and assuage her and DON'T apologize. You're best bet is to say to something like, we can talk about what's...

Machine, you're definitely right. My priorities have shifted to focusing solely on myself after my last relationship. I find that I have little free time to spare for anyone else except for family and close friends. I get more enjoyment and fulfillment out of doing what I want to do, when I...