I got unplugged after my last trainwreck of a relationship that occurred earlier this year.
The relationship had all sorts of red flags and me being the happy little BP drone, I ignored them and professed my love for the girl. My only saving grace was my buddy who went through something similar, went RP, and helped me through it all. I ended things with her and did it in a fashion where she'll never speak to me again.
I have a zero tolerance policy for female logic. I run a tight ship. Comply or bye #next!
I got my butt into the gym (overweight/obese my entire life) and have lost 60+ pounds since late March/early April. Beginning to see a physique I'm happy about it. I've never had great self-esteem or the confidence to match. I've had LTRs with women prior to the last one and have had spotty success with women when I was younger. So I'm not a virgin black pill incel.
Making moves. That's awesome.
I've read a lot of Rollo and been on this forum since June. I read a lot of books by Ryan Holiday on self-improvement. His book Ego is the Enemy is one I highly recommend for all of you. During my journey this year, I realized I had a huge ego and it has held me back all my life.
I read lots too and I go out. Busy oneself is the lane to get into. Cultivate lifestyle and create routines. Calibrate after the fact. Once you have awesome routine hardwired you can fine tune it.
it sucks having to go through all this **** at 35, but I'm not depressed about it. The challenge of improving myself physically and mentally is a worthwhile endeavour. For once in my life, I have a dedicated purpose rather than just going through life and the motions.
Mate I know fellas much older following the beaten path. Cucked, fat wife, goofs raising some other man's kid, guys who find out their first born son isn't their's. The smp is black pill. It's awesome dumpster fire. Their application is warped. PURPOSE is the bullseye. It's what modern men lack and how easy it is to stand out cause the competition is low t.
i don't owe my ex anything and I certainly don't credit her with leading me to what I am now. She was the catalyst for this change for sure. But I tell myself everyday that I wanted to do this for me, not her or because of her.
Anger is a powerful tool IF directed properly.
lot of posters here say you have to learn the hard way. Well fellas, here's proof of that statement!
That's awesome man. Now go get hotter younger girls. The best revenge is living a great life.