I believe there is a difference depending on how she says it.
If she says "We're just friends" or "I just wanna be friends" this usually means she's not attracted and you are being friendzoned.
However "We're friends" or "He is my friend" could mean she wants to play the field and you may...
I was speaking about this with a friend just yesterday.
My relationships with women improved immensely when I began to refuse any bullish!t like this.
If a chick was trying to friendzone me or giving me mixed messages I was very direct and called them on it right away.
If it were me...
I've done the canoe date many times and I know what you mean about girls who don't fit that mold.
You'd be surprised though how well this date idea works. Pack a lunch and paddle someplace private. Have some music, go for a swim, have a couple drinks, and try to escalate.
In my...
Hop on some bicycles and ride somewhere interesting.
Is there a lake or river nearby? Canoeing, kayaking, fishing, etc.
Take a trip to a nearby city for more options. Also gets you out of smallville to avoid the other girl as well.
Notice how everyone who responded actually tried to help you instead of insult you.
When I read old posts I really notice how much friendlier this forum used to be.
Here's one from earlier today
Waiting for take out food, I ran across the street to an empty coffee shop. I walk in and I'm greeted by a very cute and young rocker looking chick. Tight jeans and a hot little body. Totally different style than me
Her: how's it going?
Me: great how are...
In an effort to learn, I would like to start a thread where guys post their Daily Interactions with Women for analysis.
At the very core of all the theory, rules, and discussion that happen on this forum, it is basic interaction skills that start you on a successful path with women. If your...
I've dated these exact same girls!
Girl 1 was super fun and great sex but I could never really trust her. I wouldn't even want to leave her alone at my place. It was a short relationship.
Girl 2 was fun but the introverted, shy thing was a real drag. I found myself drifting away from...
I don't think this relationship is over.
Women love the hot and cold routine as it provides the drama they need.
It sounds like you did a good job flipping the script after your bout of insecurity. Putting the entire relationship on the line with that "Go ahead" comment was perfect...
I wish this law came out in 2000. I was living with 5 chicks. Sexing two and working on a third. I could've had a real harem going. :crackup:
P.S. This law came into effect last March. Some of you BCers are shacked up and already 4 months into your "engagement"!
BB I like the intent of this thread but I think the story you give as an example is a little off.
There are a couple different things at play here.
Teasing is going to work in some situations and totally bomb in others. You may control some of the factors like timing and delivery but what...
Mistakes everywhere!
1. Don't ask her out twice. One chance that's it. If she gets another its not for a long time and best if she initiates.
2. Don't feel hurt about the rejection. You mention feeling like a tool. Why? She ignored you? Who cares. Treat her like a stranger. You...
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